Hi Doctors,,

I have to note this is your fifth question on the forum, and at least the last three dealt with obviously low risk exposures as known by all people. It should not be necessary to continue to ask such questions. Further, it is forum policy to deny access to people with repeated, anxiety driven questions, both because they provide little educational information for users (one of the forum's main purposes) and to protect the user from himself in repeated unnecessary costs. Today's question means you have spent $125 to hear information that everybody knows, or should. So this will have to be your last question. Any future ones will be deleted without reply, and without refund of the posting fee.---

Yes I know Doctor and think you,,

The answer is above:  "Hand jobs do not transmit HIV or STDs, even without condoms -- or at least so rarely it can be ignored. With condoms, the risk is below a measurable level, i.e. zero for sure. Whether or not secretions make their way under the condom appears to make no difference." Your friend is not at risk for HIV from this event.---

last thing Dr.Hunter,,

Yes, secretions can contain HIV. But HIV causes no infection by contacting skin. Even for true sexual exposure, it requires large amounts of HIV for infection to be transmitted. Even for unprotected vaginal sex, with ejaculation in the vagina, the average transmission rate is only once for ever 1,000 exposures. What can it possibly be with the kind of exposure you ahve described. If there has never been a single case, do you really think you will be the first? Your thinking is irrational.---