You really needn't worry about having a pharyngeal STD or about the consequences you're concerned about --your partner and reinfection yourself. Gonorrhea is by far the most common and most important oral STD. However, even among the most sexually active women with multiple male partners, including those who regularly perform oral sex on their partners, typically under one percent have pharyngeal infection; and among those with gonorrhea at any anatomic site, generally about 5% have pharyngeal infection. And the pharynx is rarely the only infected site -- so your negative genital test results go a long way in indicating there is little chance. Equally important, pharyngeal gonorrhea is cleared by the immune system within several weeks and almost always within 3 months. So even if you had it, you can be sure it is long gone.

I hope these comments are helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear.

HHH, MD

also if we have had sex 6 times in the past two months would a genital infection most likely be transmitted? I know that you have stated before that STDs are not always transmitted. 

Correct that urethral gonorrhea almost always causes obvious symptoms and chlamydia often does not.

The tone of your questions suggests far more concern than warranted. Try not to over think the situation. There is no significant chance at all that either you or your partner currently has either gonorrhea or chlamydia at any anatomic site. However, if this advice doesn't settle the issue, you and your partner could be retested with urine (or vaginal swab for you) and for pharyngeal infection. Anxious persons sometimes are more reassured by negative test results than by the scientific facts and professional advice, no matter how expert. (We don't take it personally!) However, there is no point in further "what if" or "could I be the exception" questions. I am certain nothing you could think of has any possibility of changing my evaluation and advice.

I do hope you're able to move on without giving this another thought!