[Question #10182] Brief oral sex and female ejaculation on genitals

25 months ago

Thank you for taking my question. Went to what I thought was going to be a no intimate contact domination session. I received oral sex for about 5 seconds from a female dominatrix. I Stopped it quickly and took a shower. Later in the session she masturbated in front of me. She had a female ejaculation and sprayed much of it splashing on my genital area. Once again took a shower. Am I at risk for std's? If so, which tests would you suggest taking and how long would you advise to wait til I test? Thank you.

H. Hunter Handsfield, MD

25 months ago

Welcome back to the forum. Thanks for your continued confidence in our services.

This question has similarities to your previous ones a few years ago. Once again there was no intercourse, although in this time the risk was somewhat higher: receiving oral sex carries higher risk than the events you asked about in the past, but still very low chance of any STD, especially with only 5 seconds duration. Female "ejaculation" is urine, which rarely if ever transmits any STD -- and certainly genital fluids or urine onto the genital area is no risk. I do not suggest any STD testing of any kind in these circumstances. You really needn't worry at all.

I hope these comments are helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear.

HHH, MD

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25 months ago

Dr. Handsfield, thank you for your thoughtful reply. I certainly feel better hearing from you. Out of an abundance of caution- to calm a unquiet mind, I would still like to test. Which tests would a nervous fella order? And if you can please tell me the window or waiting period for each test it would be greatly appreciated.

H. Hunter Handsfield, MD

25 months ago

If you feel you must test, I would strongly recommend against the sorts of "comprehensive" STD panels offered by many labs. If you really must do it, have only a urine gonorrhea/chlamydia test, which is valid any time more than 3-4 days after exposure. All blood tests are for infections truly impossible in this situation, but if you insist, have blood tests for HIV and syphilis, but not sooner than 6 weeks after the event. For sure no others: all the rest in such panels are simply not reliable: in people without symptoms, neither a positive nor negative result can be trusted. ---

25 months ago

Dr.H,

Many thanks for your compassion and clarity. I feel truly blessed to find such generosity. All the best to you and yours

H. Hunter Handsfield, MD

25 months ago

Thanks for your thanks. That's why we're here! Best wishes and stay safe.---