Hello Dr(s). I am a heterosexual male and have only been with women. However recently I decided to experiment with another male. We had talked for months and assured me that he was clean as he always wears condoms and takes protective measures to stay clean. We had met up over the weekend and I performed unprotected oral for a few moments, there was no ejaculation. After I was on the receiving end of protected anal penetration, intercourse lasted less then 20 minutes as I was not enjoying it. The condom stayed on throughout and there was no ejaculation. I have read many different things online and its not very likely that I should be worried about transmission. However I have my doubts and I have been reassured that the sexual partner was clean and I have nothing to worry about. I don't fully trust the individual as to having met on an online dating app. Am I worrying for no reason?

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