I performed oral sex on a male - mid 40's in March ( I am female) it was a regrettable decision that has come to eat me alive with guilt. Looking at the forum I have seen statements that oral chlamdyia usually goes away in 2 weeks and or most of the time it is not viable- so I waited to have sex with my regular partner for 2 weeks and then we resumed as normal. I have since regretted this act, and can safely assume I have had a major panic attack. we have sex once a week and every month I have done a urine STD test for chlamydia, each month it has come back negative- clearly testing every month is getting expensive, but I have this irrational fear I transmitted an infection to my partner. Is there anyway after 5 months that he could have an infection and not passed it on to me? Can I stop testing and assume neither of us is infected? 

Welcome to our forum. Thank you for your questions. Thank you as well for reviewing our responses to other questions on the forum. We leave them available to others so that they can learn from our responses.  Overall, it was unlikely that you were ever infected with chlamydia and, if you were, the infection is certainly not present now, and would have shown up if it had been.  You can safely assume that neither you nor your partner were affected by your misstep. I see no reason for continuing to test and encourage you to try to put this episode behind you and move forward.  EWH ---

Thanks for the response. I just want to confirm you are stating there is a small to almost no chance I gave my partner a genital infection that he has yet to pass to me? I know this is repetitive, but I tested at end of may and was negative and we had sex 4 times in June and i tested negative at the end of June. Would an infection be passed on if there was one ? 

You are correct, this is repetitive.  My assessment is not going to change.  As I said- you are NOT infected.  You need to accept this.  If you cannot, it is not an issue of testing, it is an issue of your guilt.  ---

Yes I feel guilt, can you explain why transmission of chlamydia from oral to penis is rare? Does it have to do with penis not being in direct contact of throat? 

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