I know I run the risk of having this question deleted. But seeking your reassurance from the event described below.  For background iwent to a strip club had a few lab dances. Then received a handjob with a condom on. No gential fluids exchanged. This happened back on July 21. I had urinalysis done the following week as routine workon july 27 It was normal, no signs of wbc or blood. My wife now had recent urinalysis done on September 7 which showed leukocytes of 500 and protein in her urine. Urine is clear though and she has no discharge or ordor. No urgency or burning with urination.I am very scared and worried that I may have passed something onto my wife from my encounter. I have been reading the forum, where comments stating that STDs cannot be passed by handjob. I guess I am overthinking this and fear and anxiety are getting the best of me and worried my marriage is over. I am seeking counseling Thank you if you consider this question

This is a 100% repetitive question.  Everything you have said here was said in your post less than a week ago.  My response about is unchanged from my earlier responses to you and those responses follow a pattern of responses to similar questions that you have answered numerous times.---

Acknowledged with my thanks. I need to believe in your expertise and that I won't be that one guy who defies the odds .I will try to move on and I am hopeful for counselling.  Anxiety/guilt are my enemies.  

Sorry to be back to this.  Yesterday I developed a what looks like a cold sore on my lip. Of course my head goes to this being syphilis.  Could this be possible, given that there was no oral contact between myself and the stripper mentioned. Handjob only 

Nothing about this suggests syphilis. The time span is too long, there was no direct contact which is a prerequisite for syphilis.  See your counselor.---