I am a 33-year-old male and I'm having a very hard time right now, well the past few months in worry and wrapping my head around oral sex encounter I had with a girl was dating back in July. I had been seeing her for about a month before we were intimate 8/5 and haven’t been with her or anyone since. Protected intercourse, and unprotected oral sex for no more than a few mins. Week later while peeing I looked down and saw a small white painless patch flaky like dry skin (no pain, itching or anything wouldn’t have noticed it if I wasn’t trying to not miss the toilet bowl) lasted about 3 weeks didn't grow or change in appearance. I was anxious from that moment, jumped on google, and went down a rabbit hole. Landed on syphilis. Seen providers (5) and have got tested multiple times everything came back negative. Not sure how I landed on herpes but can’t shake it. I think because I couldn’t associate it to anything else I started questioning what could it be? I’ve already had HSV 1 for over 10 years or so. Patch started to go away after the NP at an urgent care gave me some anti-bacterial/biotic ointment. she kept asking about soaps and detergents I’m using.

I really went down a path of then thinking I had eye herpes because of something I saw in the white part of eyes (got my eyes check and have perfect vision), also felt like I had burning/ warm sensations down there only when sitting (no outbreaks or anything). I ended up going to my doctor and getting another round of std testing and antibiotics (because he was thinking it could be prostate) and HSV IGG testing at 11 weeks and HSV 1 came back 40.00 and negative for HSV2. All other testing came back negative. My doctor keeps reassuring me it’s not HSV 2. 

What are your thoughts about this?