Hello, I am a 37 year old male and on October 25th I met up with another male and gave him oral sex with no condom. No ejaculation happened in mouth that I know of. I asked him his HIV status before and after. Each time he said he was negative. This was the only male on male activity of my life. On Dec 4th I started feeling pains in the back of my leg and in my testicles. I also noticed two reddish marks in my pubic area that are still there today. Didn’t think much of it until a couple weeks later when I had two incidents of painful ejaculation. I went to the doctor and they gave me an ultrasound and found two small hydroceles but everything else was clean. They also tested my urine and found no infection. They gave me 10 days worth of doxocylin. It helped a tiny bit but the pain came back and went away, depending on the day. On December 15th I noticed a rash that looked like cat scratches with some red spots around them on my buttocks and upper thigh. They were hot to touch and had a burning sensation. Cold compresses would help. I had a headache most of December and was extremely tired. On January 15th, I noticed I had a white tongue maybe oral thrush and a canker sore on the roof of my mouth. This is when I found google and started to make the link to HIV. I am basically looking for your view on the situation while I wait to go take my test this afternoon. Thank you for your services. 

Forgot to mention that when I had the rash on my buttocks and thighs that they were extremely sore. Like I had worked them out. That lasted about two weeks. 

Sorry for the third update and don’t know if this has anything to do with anything. But my brain the last week or so has almost felt like it’s struggling to keep up. Maybe just my mental state but it sure feels strange almost like it’s lagging. 

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