Welcome to the Forum.  This was a no risk exposure.  Even in areas where the infection is common, most commercial sex workers and other members of higher risk groups do not have HIV.  Even if your partner did happen to be infected, there is still no risk to you from the activities you describe.

There is a lot of understandable concern that comes up when people hear that HIV transmission can be facilitated when persons have open sores which might act as "doorways" for acquisition of infection,  Let me try to clarify things.  There is much research that shows that when people have infectious sores such as those caused by syphilis or herpes, they are statistically more susceptible to HIV than people who do not have these infections/sores are.   In turn, many people mistakenly (but understandably) assume than any abrasion, cut, or healing sore  might act in the same way as sores caused by infections.  This is not the case.  When the infections I mentioned cause sores, the infectious process results in larger numbers of target cells for HIV infection to be present in lesions and this is much of the reason that these infections enhance risk for infection- more targets for infection.  The sores which result from chaffing, recent cuts, rashes, treated warts, etc. do not meaningfully increase risk for infection. The same is true for your healing hang nail.  Further, in your own case, the risk is even lower (if you can be lower than close to zero risk to start with) because the HIV virus (as well as other STIs) is not transmitted by the transfer of genital secretions from person to person on the hands.  Mutual masturbation regularly results in transfer of genital secretions from person to person yet there are no instances in which HIV has been transmitted from person to person in this way.  You are not going to be the first.

The exposure you describe was no risk for HIV or for other STIs. there is no reason for concern and no reason for testing of any sort.  I hope this comment is helpful.  EWH

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Your question about HIV risk is repetitive.  I have already told you that the fact that your warts are irritated by podophyllin treatment still does not put you at risk for HIV from the exposure you describe.  EWH

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Your question about HIV risk is repetitive.  I have already told you that the fact that your warts are irritated by podophyllin treatment still does not put you at risk for HIV from the exposure you describe.  EWH

This will be my final response.  We are supposed to close these interactions following two additional responses and we are far beyond this.  These will be my final comments.

No risk from masturbation (fingering) even if you had an open sore on your finger and in the unlikely event that your partner had HIV or any other STI.  Same for kissing including open mouth kissing ("tongue").

My sense is that your guilt has led to a state of hyper vigilance which, in turn is leading you to consider normal sensations which you would otherwise overlook as "symptoms".   Further, your fiancé knows you well enough to detect your guilt.  If she is a forgiving, level-headed person, my suggestion would be to acknowledge your mistake, to explain to her that there is no risk for STI (including HIV) from your error in judgment, and that it has taught you the error in your ways.

This thread will now be closed.  EWH