My questions are: 

1. Should I go ahead and get the throat swab test done? 

2. What std could I have gotten from my experience. And can you explain the changes. 

3. If oral Gonorrhea was present, would it be asymptomatic? And does it self cure? 

Just to clarify I still dont have symptoms whatsoever. How often does genital Gonorrhea go asymptomatic? 

1,3. Oral gonorrhea is exceedingly rare from cunnilingus. (As it happens, Dr. Hook was the senior researcher on one of the main studies showing how rare it is.) And when present, it almost always causes no symptoms and it goes away by itself within a few weeks and is rarely transmissible to partners. I would not have recommended a throat swab for gonorrhea. Don't worry about it.

2. The main risk was from oral sex on you. The three main STDs from such exposures are gonorrhea, nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), and herpes due to HSV type 1. There's also a very small risk of syphilis either from receiving oral sex or cunnilingus. Absence of symptoms (discharge, painful urination, penile sores) is strong evidence against all these. You can definitely expect your (urine?) gonorrhea test to be negative. Although syphilis is exceedingly unlikely, it's a dangerous infection and it would be reasonable to have a blood test after 6 weeks -- but any test before that is too soon.

Your HIV test apparently was done only a couple weeks after the exposure event, which is too soon; a negative result will be meaningless. OTOH, you were at zero risk for HIV anyway; as Dr. Hook advised, there are no known cases transmitted by cunnilingus or from mouth to penis.

HHH, MD

1. In other words a throat swab is unnecessary as my results regardless with most likely be negative.

2. They are testing me for Gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomoniasis and they did a rapid finger prick blood draw for hiv. Should I be worried about any of these. 

2. All these are very unlikely, nearly impossible based on the exposure you have described.

3. Yes, vigorous penile squeezing and "milking" in search for discharge certainly can cause this sort of discomfort. And there's no point in continuing to look:  if there's not enough discharge to be obvious without squeezing, then there isn't any there.

4. All the STDs mentioned would almost always cause symptoms within 2 weeks of exposure. With no symptoms now, you're probably home free and can expect negative test results.

"Urine?" was just meant to imply my guess that's the sample they took. The same tests often are done on a urethral swab, but that's painful to collect and urine is just as good. In other words, I was just clarifying the sample I assumed they collected.

Going back to the last time we spoke: 

1.With my encounter that I had I’m not sure if you might have misread but it was protected oral on me and unprotected on her. Even if I was protected do you still think I could be at risk for any of the possible stds we discussed? 

Just so I can be more informed about all this can you plz answer my questions please and thank you. 

Glad to hear of your negative result but of course not surprised. 

2. Yes absent symptoms after 18 days is strong evidence you were not infected.

Best wishes and stay safe. Please not the forum policy against repeated questions on the same topics. No more about these events and related issues please. Thanks for your understanding.