I had an act with a stanger (m2m) in sauna. we frennch kissed with his toung steering in my mouth.  He strock his penis and rubed his precum on to my penis and strocked mine a few times. He tried to sit on my croch but i pushed him away. Then he rubed his precum on to his nipples which i did not notice at that time but I sucked and licked it. Then I kissd his cheek and felt pain on my lip from the sting by his hair. Later i found out that my mouth has wounds and huge uclers. I ask him to take a test, he refused and i got scared and started to take FTC+TAF+DTG. 

1. could you assess if i had risk from those activities? if the wound on my lip contact the precum and the wound got poked by hair, will that create higher risk?

2. since 3 days of PEP was taken, when can i take a conclusive test?

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sorry for multiple reply and bad english

I'm in a very confused state where doctors is having different opiions. 

could you also advise if there is risk on french kissing and if the precum touched the urethal of my penis

thank you for your time

The exposure that you describe was very low risk for HIV.  I'm sorry to hear that your partner refused to test- I understand why that can be concerning.  At the same time however, this was a no risk event for HIV.  HIV is not transmitted by kissing, even vigorous French kissing.  In addition contact with a partner's genital secretions without penetration is a no risk event as well.  HIV is Sexually transmitted ONLY through penetrative sexual contact.  Therefore when partner's get each other's genital secretions on one another, even if the contact is near the urethra.  There is no evidence that swallowing genital secretions without penetration (for instance if you were kissing parts of his body which had genital secretions on them) would put you at risk for HIV.  If you had asked me if you needed PEP, I would have said no.  I'm glad you stopped taking the medication.  If you want to test (I do not see the need) testing 6 weeks after your last dose of medication will provide conclusive results which will prove that you were not infected. 

Your mouth sores are not due to HIV and do not increase your risk for HIV

Hi Dr Hook, thanks for commenting

Have a few follow up questions.

1. Seems that my experince is The exposure was very low risk for HIV but no risk event for HIV. how to understand this? is it like theorically possible, but pratically it doesnt happen to this kind of event?

4. Is it recommended to take 4th gen ab/ag test or 3rd gen ab test?

If you chose to test, a 4th generation, combination HIV antigen/antibody test is preferable. They provide conclusive results sooner (at 6 weeks vs 8 weeks for 3rd generation, antibody only tests)

I hope this information is helpful.  Please don't worry.  EWH

Thank you for the for the kind words. Your detailed and professinal advises really relieve me from the anxity. I will take a 4th gen test after 2 weeks(6 weeks after last does of pep) for assurance. And I have a good feeling about it.

Thank you so much for your time