[Question #11180] Lesbian transmission

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16 months ago
Hello
I am 58 F, positive for hsv2 for 15+ years. My newish partner is not positive. In reading internet I see that it is possible for me to pass to her by fingering even if I don’t have whitlow. Is that true? What are the transmission rates for women - on valtrex, no oral, no sharing of toys, no genital to genital contact. Thank you 
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Terri Warren, RN, Nurse Practitioner
16 months ago
That is not true, no, fingering is not a method of transmission.  Without genital to genital contact and no oral sex and no sharing of toys, your HSV 2 is not a transmission risk.  I am assuming your HSV 2 is genital?

Terri
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16 months ago
Yes, hsv2 genital. Thank you very much for your response.  Is it true that you could show symptoms beyond 28 days for first outbreak? My only anxiety now is about 8 weeks ago I may have touched myself and then her …but even that not sure.
Anxiety is real and goodness knows I appreciate you for taking the time to answer and having this forum, 
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Terri Warren, RN, Nurse Practitioner
16 months ago
Well, you could show symptoms years after a first outbreak, but if someone were going to have symptoms, it would show up 2-10 days after the encounter.  In your situation, I think there isn't any real risk of transmission at all, however.

Terri
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16 months ago
Thank you - I appreciate the information on this site greatly.
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Terri Warren, RN, Nurse Practitioner
16 months ago
You're welcome

Terri
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