[Question #11216] HPV & sex toy
16 months ago
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Hi, I’m obsessing over an incident from 2 years ago. I used my parent’s vibrator, abt a year after I noticed 1/2 pink bumps on penis (came up at the same time: skin around them was irritated - think they went within a week) and 1 on anus (this went in a few months - sometimes looked bloody and other times pale). I’m terrified this is genital warts. I’m scared that should this be HPV & I don’t say anything they’ll get sick. I’m confident this toy (silicone) couldn’t have been used at least 16 hours before me. I know you haven’t seen the warts but does HPV seem likely? And should I tell them? I don’t want them to miss out on any additional tests/screenings should they need them for cancer/VAIN if they’re higher risk.
16 months ago
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I meant to say the penile bumps came up sooner than a year, possibly a few weeks/months after? Seeing as it was a few years ago, I can’t remember specifics - just that it happened and I’m so ashamed of it now, and that it’s killing my mental health and everything I can look forward to. The anal one was first noticed around a year after. Struggling to see physical doctor (even though the ‘warts’ are no longer present, I do have picture of penile one on my phone) as my GP is our family GP and I don’t really want this getting out. It’s so embarrassing and I hate my younger self for not acknowledging what was right and wrong. Any help would be much appreciated, thanks!
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
16 months ago
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Welcome to the Forum. Thanks for your question and the opportunity to comment. My advice starts with a plea for you to take a deep breath and relax. The exposure you describe was low, if not no risk, there is no evidence that you had warts, and if you did it is inconsequential. Let me expand on each of these comments:
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It seems that the lesions you are concerned about went away over a relatively short period of time. Is that correct? If so, the likelihood that they were warts is close to zero.
Secondly, if you used the toy on your penis, there is no way the anal lesions you describe were HPV.
Third, please provide some comments on your sexual history (i.e. are you sexually active?, if so how many prior partners have you had?, finally, are you vaccinated against HPV?))
these are my preliminary assessments, based on the exposures and information you provide I may have additional thoughts when you provide additional information. As a generalization, I think the event you describe was no risk. I think you are worrying far more than is appropriate and need to stop worrying and move forward.
EWH
16 months ago
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Hi. Thanks for reply. I’ve never had sex so not sexually active and I did use toy on anus as well. Penile lesions came and went within a week (ish). About six months later I discovered anal lesion which took 3-4 months to go (was sometimes red; sometimes pale - could hardly tell it was there). Do I need to tell my parents? I just want clarification as to whether HPV could’ve lasted long enough to infect me so I know whether they have it or not. I don’t want to stop them getting additional tests/exams for VAIN in vagina or smear tests if necessary, I only want them to be healthy. Do people typically need more tests after getting genital warts or having a reactivated HPV infection? (considering their age). Mum had all-clear cervical screen last year so after potential ‘warts’ but of course I worry she has internal warts so is asymptomatic and can’t see them and could develop pre-cancerous changes. Any help would be great, I’m in a dire state. Thank you.
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
16 months ago
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You are worrying needlessly. While theoretically HPV can bed transmitted theoretically by inanimate objects, this virtually never happens. Further, the lesions you describe do not at all sound like warts. Warts do not disappear after just a few weeks or even months in the manner you describe. Finally, you have no reason to think that you mother has warts. I strongly advise you not to be concerned.
If there are no lesions present now, there is nothing to worry about. There are no tests for asymptomatic HPV infections in men, thus there is nothing to do.
---Finally, if you are concerned about HPV the most important thing you can do to prevent infection is to get the HPV vaccine. EWH
16 months ago
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Hi doctor, many thanks for your reply. This will certainly help me. As this is my final follow-up question can you just confirm for me:
1. How long HPV lives on a sex toy (enough to infect anybody - I saw it could be DNA but not live virus after few hours so no transmission?)
2. If typically, anybody needs additional tests for cancer/changes after having genital warts/HPV?
3. If genital warts put you at serious risk for anything?
4. For if these were warts, it’s safe for me to not tell my parents (I don’t want to invade on their sex life/privacy) and allow my mum to wait the 4 years until her next cervical screening?
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
16 months ago
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As you know, we provide up to three responses for each client's questions. These will be my final responses. There should be no need to return to the site with further questions about the no risk events you have described.
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1. How long HPV lives on a sex toy (enough to infect anybody - I saw it could be DNA but not live virus after few hours so no transmission?)
As I said above, "While theoretically HPV can be transmitted by inanimate objects, this virtually never happens". The virus does not live on inanimate objects and is virtually never transmitted by them. You need to stop worrying about this
2. If typically, anybody needs additional tests for cancer/changes after having genital warts/HPV?
The question is not clear. Fewer than 3% of persons who get HIV develop what are sometimes called "pre-cancerous" lesions and even many of these go away with time. Further testing is needed only when a lesion is present or, in women, when abnormalities are detected during PAP smears.
3. If genital warts put you at serious risk for anything?
NO!!!
4. For if these were warts, it’s safe for me to not tell my parents (I don’t want to invade on their sex life/privacy) and allow my mum to wait the 4 years until her next cervical screening?
There is absolutely NO reason to discuss this with your parents. She is safe waiting for her next scheduled screening.
Finally, it appears you may have been looking for answers in the internet. Please do not do this. Much of what is there is incorrect, either because it is out of date, misinterpreted, taken out of context or just plain wrong. Please don't look for answers on the internet
This will now complete this Thread. EWH