[Question #11306] Herpes/ STD

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15 months ago
Hello, on April 25, I went to a " massage parlor" for the first time. The female walked  on my back with her feet, massaged my buttocks with her feet. Several times, I could  feel her feet touching the inside  of  my but cheeks, She did not enter my anus or penetrate me at all.  She did massage near my anus. She then masturbated me to completion. Hand to genital, bare skin. The next day, no good reason why I went to a different one, this girl massaged me with her hands,  she massaged me and rubbed near  my anus but never penetrated it.  Masturbated me to completion, Two days later, i felt bad, not sick just off. no fever, nothing. My anus area has been burning etc. I have noticed no sores, lesions, anything. I am not worried about HIV as  no fluid  exchanged other than mine. I am worried about Herpes.  Please share your thoughts. I am out of this, never doing this again
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Terri Warren, RN, Nurse Practitioner
15 months ago
Thanks for your post.  The situation that you described here does NOT present a risk for the acquisition of genital herpes.  I suspect that the sick feeling you had was related to something entirely different.  Masturbating you or coming close to the anus is not the right kind of contact to spread the herpes virus from one person to another.  Even if someone had penetrated your anus with their fingers, that also presents no risk for HSV.  In order for herpes to be transmitted, there would need to be some mucous membrane to mucous membrane contact - genital to genital or genital to oral or oral to anus, you get the picture, I hope.  Your experience did not meet any of these criteria, as you explained it

Terri 
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15 months ago
Thank you for the response and the services you provide. A great source of information 
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Terri Warren, RN, Nurse Practitioner
15 months ago
You are most welcome, and so sorry for the confusion earlier.  I answered the question but somehow the response didn't post so it looked empty and I thought you had posted it twice.  Happy to help with your question.

Terri
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15 months ago
Hello and thank you for the answer. I guess I have remembered some details more since I am over the freakout period. Besides her massaging me, I did touch her. I penetrated her with my fingers and masturbated her to completion. She then masturbated me to completion. Besides her massaging my anal area is there any danger of HIV from me masturbating her or her me, for several minutes. I didn't notice any cuts on my hands but my nails are real short. Is there any need for testing based on this new question. Than you for what you do.
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Terri Warren, RN, Nurse Practitioner
15 months ago
NO, the masturbation presents no risk of HIV acquisition either.  I don't believe there is any need for testing for HSV or HIV

Terri
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