[Question #11323] Nervous About Oral

15 months ago

Yesterday 5/8 I received a massage with a handjob and an unexpected blowjob. The unprotected BJ lasted a couple of minutes before I stopped it but it happened. I also fingered her for a few minutes and then we finished with me jacking off on her. Being extremely nervous about this encounter and taking anything home to my partner I panicked and ask her if I was ok. She was extremely nice about it and even showed me her recent 4/25 STD testing that showed she was negative. My question is how at Risk am I with the encounter to taking some back to my partner? Just worried obviously about the BJ but also where I did touch her vagina and then manually finished myself. Thank you

H. Hunter Handsfield, MD

15 months ago

Welcome to the forum. Thanks for your confidence in our services.

There is little risk of any STD and zero for HIV. The vast majority of massage or sex workers have no oral infection to be transmitted, and hand-genital contact and fingering are zero risk -- even if genital fluids are used for lubrication. It's nice you have also seen her test results, but even without that I would advise you do not need testing for anything and can safely continue unprotected sex with your partner without putting her at risk in any way.

I hope these comments are helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear.

HHH, MD

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15 months ago

For the past couple of days I’ve been experiencing some joint pain in my right hand(thumb) almost like an arthritis type of joint pain. Is this just something that is unrelated In your view or is it possible that it could be gonococcal arthritis this soon?

H. Hunter Handsfield, MD

15 months ago

No STI causes symptoms like you describe. It's unrelated. And gonococcal arthritis doesn't show up like this; if that's what you have, you would have fever, multiple joints involved, and likely a particular kind of skin rash.---

15 months ago

Thank you!