I have read probably close to a hundred posts here, and thoroughly appreciated every response from the Docs and Ms. Warren, though none exactly resembled my situation (and search function is very limited), hence my own question. I read that the consensus is that HSV2 is largely asymptomatic, in which case AB testing is not recommended. Also see that symptoms would appear 2-12 days. Some "expert" websites say 2-20 days, hence the concern. Also saw someone claiming they didn't test + for HSV2 until month #7 (how plausible is this?)...  I also see that singular blister for HSV2 is very rare for initial, and frankly I can't rule out if I have blisters (too small to tell if liquid filled).  This "one last CSW" visit was the stupidest idea and my anxiety that I recovered from in May came back... I am seeking therapy now so I will have to deal with my mental health there. And I love and respect you guys' expertise, hence consulting you all directly here.  I finally started having sex w/ my regular partner and learned the hard way of what really matters in life. I just want to make sure I do not put her in any risk.  I was concerned about HPV but let that out the window after reading your responses. HSV2 and HepB are my concerns now (I was never vaccinated for HBV, no antibody found).  

Addt'l details: April CSW had diarrhea because I "went too deep" in missionary. Not sure if any of her feces got on me, she was super embarrased but I was very kind to her nevertheless. Not sure if this was a risk but thought it was worth mentioning. 

The current symptom that concerns me most is randomly tingly/itchy penis (around glans).

No bumps or anything found anywhere else, not even on the glans itself. Just a very red area with tiny little white or skin colored bump (which felt relatively smooth when skin is stretched out) that turned into a RAISED 2mm red bump (with the tiny white/skin color bump in it, but not in the center - might be caused by my hyper inspection?). 

Anus being very red was somewhat concerning but I still have mixed stools (not diarrhea but very ragged edges) so it could be pruritus ani. 

None of these concerned areas (anus area, glans, etc.) are painful to touch. No pain at all when urinating or pooping, no discharge, etc. 

I wanted to ask for your expertise and assessment. I understand some of these do not have specific research for you to provide specific info, but your decades of expertise is absolutely valuable and trustworthy. I am sorry I came back, but this is the only place I can freely consult and expect accurate, well-researched scientific response that I can trust. Thank you so much. 

I should add - just one more csw gone totally wrong because it didn't make me happy but guilty. Not because I got infected. (Thinking positive!)

"Veins" might be better described as blood vessels (not the thick veins that run through penis etc.). Closest image I found was under "Telangiectasia".

Correction: I should add - just one more csw gone totally wrong because it didn't make me happy but guilty. Nothing to do with any infection because I am confident that I did not. 

It concerns me greatly that a person over the internet would look at a bump such as yours and make the statement "early signs of HSV 2".  I am assuming your described your encounter to them?  That is was receiving unprotected oral sex?  While condoms reduce transmission of HSV 2 from females to males by only 65%, it seems to me that the fellatio is the greater risk here perhaps---