Can I get hiv in any of these circumstances if I got cut on lip and bleeding gums? 

Also for peace of mind how soon would the nat test  be conclusive? Cdc say 12-33 days but I don't want to wait 33 days of worrying 

By way of background, let me remind you that most people, even those with multiple sex partners do not have STIs. Thus it is unlikely that your partner had any STI.  Even if she did however There is absolutely NO RISK for any STI from kissing or humping (the medical term is frottage),  This is true even if there was deep kissing involved and even if your clothing got wet with genital secretions- still no risk at all.  This is true even with a cut on your lip, with bleeding gums and, if present, gum disease- still no risk.  

Testing would be a waste of time and resources.  On the other hand, testing is always a personal choice and if a negative test would be reassuring to you, I understand.  HIB RNA PCR (NAT) tests provide conclusive results any time more than 11 days after an exposure.  The CDC's recommendations are conservative.  

I hope this information is helpful  I am completely confident that you are at no risk for HIV or other STIs from the activities you describe.  EWH

And after this reply ty for all your help I really appreciate you 

As you know, this will complete this thread.  I think you are worrying entirely too much for the no risk exposure you have described.  Take care.  Please don’t worry.  EWH