I’ve been divorced for 4 years. My ex wife has HSV2 and passed it to me. I get around 1 small breakout a year. Two years ago I decided to date men. I know from reading the questions asked on this site how to weigh my risk. I met a white males in his 50’s around two years ago. We went down on each other and I asked his status and he said he was clean. Now I’m not interested in anal but he is. We compromised and we lubed my anus and he would rub his penis against my anus. It was intense rubbing and he did try to go inside but I stopped him. I went down on him and he did not tell me he was going to cum and he came in my mouth and eyes. I was not happy. I asked him to affirm his clean status and he looked nervous. Now I know I would have felt a penis going inside me and my anal entry was sore from the intense rubbing. I waited a year to take the orasure HIV test and it was negative. Now 2 years later when I wipe it hurts and I touched around and notice a bump around my anus (not on my actual anus but like the walls). It does not hurt while defecating just when wiping. Can I trust my negative HIV test and can this bump be non related. I know if he lied and had HIV I still a low probability. 

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Thank you for the clarification. Like I stated I did date a man for the first time but decided I was only curious. He try to go in and I could feel pain so I told him no. He apologized and I’ve always wonder during the encounter did he slip it in without me knowing but it’s obvious I would have felt it. Yes I’ve had irritation in my anal area before. The bump is located in a place where hair normally grows. I felt a tingling in the area so I did have a fear that I was getting a HSV2 breakout in the anal area even though all my genital breakout for the past 4 years have been in the same area. They say tingling is a precursor to a breakout. I have that tingling weeks after a breakout but I tend to think it’s my own mind focusing on the area. I had a CBC because on pancreatitis. The doctor said my labs were normal. Would HIV show on those test. I have a phobia of blood so seeing how statistically the orasure and the degree of my exposure is low I think I will just go with that. The man I did this with is in his 50 and a professional white male. Like you said most people don’t lie when asked directly about their status and in the event that he did the odds are on my favor. Thanks Doc

This information doesn't change my assessment or advice. Tingling can precede a herpes outbreak, but ongoing or long lasting tingling is not a symptom of herpes. And you certainly can rely on the Oraquick test result. Thanks for the thanks.---