[Question #11689] Any risk for STD/STI ?

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12 months ago
Can I get HIV or any STD from this?!

I went to a massage parlor and stripped down to my boxers, i had my boxers on the whole time. 

At first she started giving me a massage but then we switched and i started giving her a massage. 

She stripped to her underwear as well. 
So were both in our underwears at this point 

I’m massaging her but i also pull her underwear down and rub/finger her vagina a little bit here and there with my hand so she is naked and i do touch/rub/finger her vagina 

I dont think i touched my face or mouth. 
But i did touch my penis through my boxers after touching her vagina. 
Could an STD pass through cotton boxers?

She was also giving me a handjob through my boxers. 

At the end i lay on the table after her and shes standing next to the table giving me a handjob with my boxers on so i ejaculate into my boxers. 

If she had any STD in her vaginal fluids could i get any of that on my fingers? Like HPV, herpetic whitlow etc. 
My finger nails were quite long too does that play a role? 

TLDR:
My underwear never came off the entire time. But i did finger/rub her vagina. Any risk for any STDs?
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
12 months ago
*Sigh*

Your previous thread (your second, entirely about irrational anxieties about STDs) ended with a warning about still more anxiety driven questions.

You cannot get any STD from any of the sorts of contact you describe here. No STI bacteria or virus can pass through clothing. Hand-genital contact of any kind (like fingering or masturbating a partner) also is risk free. You will never be at risk for any STI until and unless your penis enters a partner's vagina, rectum or mouth; or if there is direct genital-genital or oral-genital contact with pressure, rubbing, grinding, etc. Believe it -- and don't ask again about such things. Thank you.

HHH, MD

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12 months ago
I understand this sounds like a lot of anxiety. 
I guess my biggest worry was if I could get Herpetic Whitlow on my finger from fingering and touching her vagina. I dont know if she has herpes down there and i also dont know if she had an active outbreak or anything. 
Also if I touched her vaginal fluids and then touched my mouth or eye or something i know ghonnorea or chlamydia can get transmitted that way. 
Im not worried about my penis as i did have my boxers on the whole time. 
I was just worried about herpes on my finger or something going into my mouth from my finger
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
12 months ago
I've never seen or even heard of a case of herpetic whitlow acquired by vaginal fingering. Whitlow usually results from self-infection by finger contact with a person's own new infection with oral or genital herpes. And no:  not enough STD bacteria or viruses can be carried on the fingers to infect oneself. You're not at risk for infection of your fingers, eyes, or anywhere.---
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