[Question #1185] Hiv risk..urgent help

55 months ago
Dear dr i recently had 2 expoaures wiyh 2 different males....
1. Involved giving each ither hand jobs ..hiwever he was naked n on top of me buy no penetration..his oenis touxhed n rubbed my penis ...n some of hia precum touched my penis head....im worried it may cause hiv...since oenis has mucous lining


2. The second exposure was alao the same type however he alao rubbed his penis in my groin area till he cummed in his underwear and i had a small boil in my groin but there was no blood or pus...any risk from these activities plz help....i tested about 6 weeeka back for hiv
...however i havemt twsted after this expoaures and the previous one whixh was frottage wiyh pants for which u said no risk ..

Request ur advice...thanks dr
Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
55 months ago
Welcome to our Forum.  I'll be pleased to comment. both of the exposures that you describe are no risk events for the acquisition of HIV.  HIV is spread only by penetrative sex and injection of infected material deep into tissue. The activities that you describe are mutual masturbation without penetration and even when mutual masturbation involves skin-to-skin genital contact without penetration or contact with sex partners' genital secretions, do not place you at any risk for HIV.  In the same way, that some of your partner's genital secretions may have contacted a boil on your groin still does not place you at risk for HIV.  There is no reason for concern from the exposure that you describe and no reason for even testing- this was safe sex.  EWH
---
55 months ago
Thanks dr howveer we were xompletely naked n our penises rubbed againat each other n some precum came on my penis head....dr handsfield had mentioned on medhelp in some post that it is a low or negligible risk and there is a small chance of infection    . Request some clarity on the aame plz 
.

Thanks again dr
Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
55 months ago
I can assure you, Dr. Handsfield agrees with me.  What you describe  was a no risk event.  EWH---
55 months ago
Thanks a lot dr....however just wanted to mentiob that his bare penis brushed against my anus as well i thibk  since he was on top ...there was no oentration ..at keast i didnt feel anything...since im a virgin i assume i would have known if it happened...what id his orecum went into my anus or in my penis hole ...i have read that hiv is more prevelant in gay and bisexual men ....im worried i may also get it....do i just stop meeting men...if that woyld keep me hiv free ? Plz help
Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
55 months ago
As I said above, without penetration, there is no realistic risk at all for HIV.  The your partner's penis touched your anus does not change this.  Still no risk.

HIV is more common in men who have sex than heterosexual men and women.  The best way to prevent HIV is to practice safe sex with consistent use of condoms for all casual sexual relationships with persons who are of unknown HIV status.  Sharing needles to inject drugs is also a risk for HIV.  

This is mym3rd answer to your questions and therefore, by Forum guidelines, this will be my last response.  I hope my responses have been helpful.  Stay safe.  EWH
---