Dear dr i recently had 2 expoaures wiyh 2 different males....

Welcome to our Forum.  I'll be pleased to comment. both of the exposures that you describe are no risk events for the acquisition of HIV.  HIV is spread only by penetrative sex and injection of infected material deep into tissue. The activities that you describe are mutual masturbation without penetration and even when mutual masturbation involves skin-to-skin genital contact without penetration or contact with sex partners' genital secretions, do not place you at any risk for HIV.  In the same way, that some of your partner's genital secretions may have contacted a boil on your groin still does not place you at risk for HIV.  There is no reason for concern from the exposure that you describe and no reason for even testing- this was safe sex.  EWH
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Thanks dr howveer we were xompletely naked n our penises rubbed againat each other n some precum came on my penis head....dr handsfield had mentioned on medhelp in some post that it is a low or negligible risk and there is a small chance of infection    . Request some clarity on the aame plz 

I can assure you, Dr. Handsfield agrees with me.  What you describe  was a no risk event.  EWH---

Thanks a lot dr....however just wanted to mentiob that his bare penis brushed against my anus as well i thibk  since he was on top ...there was no oentration ..at keast i didnt feel anything...since im a virgin i assume i would have known if it happened...what id his orecum went into my anus or in my penis hole ...i have read that hiv is more prevelant in gay and bisexual men ....im worried i may also get it....do i just stop meeting men...if that woyld keep me hiv free ? Plz help

As I said above, without penetration, there is no realistic risk at all for HIV.  The your partner's penis touched your anus does not change this.  Still no risk.---