Thanks too much for your great efforts 

I want you recommendations regarding my case please 

I am 41 years old male ,I go to massage center in Dubai ,I do the following 

Naked body to body massage where me and the girl was totally naked , we are sleep side to side face to face and start mouth kiss and hugging ,penis touch her vagina then I ejaculate first time 

Then she clean my penis , then I touch her all body as some massage including her vagina 

Then continue mouth kissing and she give me handjob and ejaculate one more time in her hand then finish and I clean my penis with my hand and take shower 

Regarding my cases please recommend me :

1 ) do I am in risk of HIV infection 

2)do I need to make any test to exclude infection 

3) I am worry about my wife ,can I resume me sexual activity with her safe without worry about this incident 

Please inform me if there is any small chance to be infected or I can continue my life and forget this incident 

I am not sure if there is any cut wound or sores present as light not too much 

If there , they will be change in recommendations 

Thank you for you efforts 

You are at no risk of HIV or any other STI on account of the exposure you have described. HIV and STI bacteria and viruses are not spread by body contact that does not involve genital penetration -- i.e. no chance of transmission by body-body contact, hand-genital contact, or mouth contact with nipples, breasts, etc. Vigorous open mouth kissing sometimes transmits gonorrhea or syphilis, but these are still zero risk for all practical purposes -- and it seems you did not experience this sort of kissing. Whether or not there were cuts or sores on exposed areas -- either yours or the masseuse -- does not change the risk. (Beware of online advice about HIV/STI risks! Anybody can write anything they want, and much of the information found on many online sites is simply wrong.)

Therefore, in response to your three numbered questions:

1) You were not at risk of HIV or other STI.

2) I do not recommend testing for anything.

3) You can continue unprotected sex with your wife without putting her at risk. That's what I would do if somehow I were in your situation.

I hope these comments are helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear.

HHH, MD

Just question regarding penis touch her vagina then ejaculate and may semen touch her vagina ,so genital -genital contact without penetration still carry same assessment and same recommendations 

For my final concern  , for genital-genital contact in my case it may  like my penis touch her  outer side of vagina ,we are sleep side to side not over each other 

I ejaculate but not sure if semen come contact with vagina 

So I can continue the same recommendation regarding no need of HIV testing and continue my sexual activity 

That concludes this thread. Best wishes and stay safe.