I recently visited a professional dominatrix. Whilst tied up/blindfolded she inserted a covered sex toy into my anus. Prior to the session beginning I asked her if the toys were sterilised, she said yes and that condoms were always used on toys. Whilst blindfolded she also attached electrical stimulation cords (estim) around my penis, I asked her If those were sterilised and she said yes. I think that a vibrator of some kind was also used on my penis but I couldn't see. She said all toys  used are always cleaned and condoms used. I ejecuated during the stimulation. I asked her at the end to confirm that everything we did was safe, eg sterile/covered and she said yes. There was no sex involved and at no point did I ever touch her. I am probably overthinking everything and being over anxious about any std exposure.

Welcome to our form. Thank you for your questions. I’ll be glad to comment. Using the services of a dominatrix involves a certain amount of not only submission but trust. The person you interacted with was a professional, who assured you that all of the toys utilized during your interaction were clean and safe. I would urge you to trust her. I am unaware of anyone who has been infected with an STI through the sort of interaction you describe. ---

Thank you. That has really put my mind at rest.

I’m glad that I have been able to help you. EWH.---