[Question #12165] Follow Up Question 12077
9 months ago
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So sorry to be back doctors but I did want to get overall clarification of HPV as well. As you can see from previous discussions with both of you, encounter was brief unprotected anal (1 minute) with 45 year old. 9 lifetime partners all but 3 were protected. 2 were husband ex husband and myself. I saw her 2021, 2016, 2013, 2012, 2011 pap results for all high risk strains and all negative. She had Cystoscopy and Colonoscopy in May this year and nothing abnormal. About a week ago I received my 1st gardasil 9 vaccine. Not sure why i was never offered this as a youngster. I have read previous threads from you all and see that almost everyone will have been exposed to at least one HPV strain and possibly many more. My concern are the GW causing ones. I have had 5 partners my entire life including this one. Information online places this women in a lower risk category with a prevalence if HPV 6 and 11 at around 4% and 1%. Not sure if that is correct. Im assuming prevalence means actively infectious. I am assuming she has either had it in the past and never had warts (her words) and cleared it or has never had HPV 6 or 11 which seems unlikely given her partners and her ex husband cheating unprotected so much. Wife has had 3 lifetime partners that I know of. Im more concerned about the visible proof of infidelity. Hard to argue way out of that one. Both females unvaccinated.
1. What are the odds I could have gotten HPV 6 or 11 from this single unprotected anal encounter?
2. Is anal riskier than vaginal for M2F?
3. What are the odds a 45 year old has active transmissible HPV?
4. If I develop warts in the next year, can I assume it was from this encounter?
5. Could having the 1st dose vaccine help minimize symptoms of warts?
6 If she has abstained from sex for over 2 years, would it be likely any active infection would have cleared before we had sex?
9 months ago
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Meant to add Questions 12077 and 12093
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
9 months ago
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I'm sorry you're back. Looking at your two previous threads, it is obvious you are continuing to seriously overreact to a near zero risk situation.
Your partner almost certainly did not have an active HPV infection at the times you were exposed and I would judge the chance you acquired HPV to be zero or close to it. Even if she had HPV and you were infected, it would not matter. Having had 5 lifetime sex partners, probably you already were infected, and the single new sexual exposure you are worried about describe did not significantly raise your risk of having it -- especially given her negative Pap smears and HPV tests. In my opinion you should not have asked your partner about her HPV and pap smear history. I hope you were kind and respectful in doing so; she was under no obligation to answer such questions. And you certainly did not need to be vaccinated against HPV in this situation.
If you're worried about genital warts as "visible proof of infidelity", that's nonsense. If you were to develop genital warts someday, there would be no reason for you or your wife to assume they came from this single event. It is just as likely you already have a longstanding HPV 6 or 11 infections. Newly diagnosed HPV is almost never valid evidence of recent sex with a new partner.
1. "What are the odds I could have gotten HPV 6 or 11 from this single unprotected anal encounter?" Zero or close to it.
2. "Is anal riskier than vaginal for M2F?" No.
3. "What are the odds a 45 year old has active transmissible HPV?" Very low, especially given her negative HPV tests with several paps. And by the way, routine HPV tests with pap also include HPV 6 and 11.
4. "If I develop warts in the next year, can I assume it was from this encounter?" No. See above.
5. "Could having the 1st dose vaccine help minimize symptoms of warts?" No. Vaccination after exposure has no effect against HPV; and there is no protection against new exposure until after the second dose.
6. "If she has abstained from sex for over 2 years, would it be likely any active infection would have cleared before we had sex?" This reduces still further the possibility she has HPV.
Move on. You're wasting unnecessary time and emotional energy on a non event in terms of risk for any and all STDs, including HPV.
HHH, MD
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9 months ago
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I completely understand doctor and I can honestly say I was very respectful in how I asked. She had actually given me all of this info before hand I just didnt really look closely at anything related to HPV until the whole wart thing came up. I also apologized to her for not being vaccinated and potentially putting her at risk as well. I was not aware that routine paps check for hpv 6 and 11 since they arent listed on the results page she shared. I should have assumed they would check for those as well. The internet is a very misleading place with a lot of misleading information. Some website says almost everyone who acquires HPV 6 or 11 dont develop warts (over 90%) which based on the forum is false. Seems more like 50-70% do. I can say that my genital symptoms have gotten much better since my results from the other test. Still some discomfort but I attribute that to stress and anxiety leading to issues with my pelvic floor. I also wanted to ask the question since I see that this information is not common on the forum regarding heterosexual anal. Some website like the ncbi say that anal is riskier for single events then vaginal while other say its not. Having the information here and it being current can help others as well. I get the second dose next month on the 20th which hopefully will reduce any type of recurrence I may have in the future.
1. For the sake of questions, if I end up getting warts, is it safe to assume it was dormant in me or a reactivation from over 10 years ago? Last time I had sex outside of my wife. Ive never noticed warts but I guess its possible to be asymptomatic and get warts one day in times of high stress.
2. I am planning on taking TRT. Would this have any impact on my immune system or anything that could cause a flair up in me assuming I have a past HPV 6 or 11 infection?
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
9 months ago
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My understanding indeed is that routine HPV testing with pap usually includes HPV 6 and 11, but that might not always be the case. I didn't mean to mislead you. Still, whether or not she was tested for these types, there is almost no chance she had either one of them
The website you describe is inaccurate or you misunderstood. Well over half of people infected with HPV 6 or 11 develop visible warts, and it may be higher than that. General advice about health websites is to stick with professionally run or moderated sites (like this one, health departments, academic medical centers, etc) and avoid those by and for people with or fearful of that health issue. Like Reddit, for example. Anyone can write whatever they want, and the very worst kind of health advice is typically from people who either intentionally or mistakenly provide serious misinformation.
HPV vaccines are not given for the purpose of reducing HPV recurrence. They may have that effect, but if so it is minor. Vaccination is to prevent new infection -- that's all.
1. Partly answered above; re-read starting with "If you were to develop...." If you develop warts in the future, you will never be able to know for sure whether it was reactivation of a distant past infection or more recent infection from your wife, who could have had a distant past infection herself. Or conceivably from your recent partner, but that would be the least likely explanation. The point is that it would not imply you had had another sex partner recently.
2. I assume TRT means testosterone replacement therapy. It has no effect whatever on the immune system, or on HPV or any other infection.
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9 months ago
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I saw her pap results and they listed the high risk types which were a bunch. I didnt see 6 or 11 but I cant say they didnt check for those. I would assume they would visually inspect as well during pap smears and the other two procedures she had earlier this year. One was a colonoscopy and the other a cystoscopy I think. Nothing related to warts but some regular check ups she said she does for cancer prevention due to family history. I would also assume that adding the pap and the other two visual inspections with the cameras would further reduce the likely hood she had any active infection? My understanding from the forum is that once the infection clears, its no longer transmissible, even when DNA can be found. Unless of course you have a reactivation which according to the site is rare/uncommon. By that logic I would assume that most of us past 30 who have had HPV infections have already cleared the infections and are likely not transmissible most of the time. Unless of course its a brand new infection with a new strain. Am I understanding the basics of HPV? So because she has been negative for so many consecutive paps, the assumption is if she had any of those HPV strains, they have already cleared and she has yet to reactivate and may not reactivate? Same could go for me? Just because I havent had any visible warts that doesnt mean I havent contracted HPV 6 or 11 in the past and wont ever get warts in the future?
Is it the nature of older women that makes them less likely to be infectious?
And her lack of recent sexual history that makes any transmissible STD/STI unlikely?
This one being married makes me believe the risk are even lower and her medical history suggest she is even lower risk. You are the experts and im sure knowledge plus 40+ years of experience is why you can say the risk of my partner is zero or close to it?
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
9 months ago
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I'm sorry, but this is too much. You have been advised about the near zero risk of HPV from the exposure described, as well as the lack of any health consequence (or consequences for your marriage) if you were infected. I have neither the time nor energy to read this essay. Correct, just because you haven't had warts does not prove you don't have HPV 6 or 11. But it is unlikely. You're also asking me to repeat previous replies in different words -- I've already said your partner's sexual history makes it unlikely she as any active STTD.
That concludes this thread. Please note the forum policy against repeated questions on the same topic. This being your third about your near-zero risk sexual exposure and your hyper-anxious responses to it, it must be your last. Repeated anxiety driven questions are subject to being deleted without reply and without refund of the posting fee. We're not keen on collecting fees for questions with obvious answers; repeated replies often prolong anxiety rather than relieving it (there's so often a "yes but" or "could I be the exception" sort of thinking); and such questions have reduced education value for other users, one of the forum's goals. Thank you for your understanding.
I do hope the discussions have been useful. Best wishes to you.