[Question #12207] ORAL SEX

9 months ago

Dear Sirs, Greetings

1- Since Feb-2024 i went to many hospitals with my relatives and when i leave the hospital see some wounds, and scratches in my hand, is that risky for HIV ?

2- on 21 Aug i received (a woman masturbated to me by hand ) and it was somehow strong while i had some dotes in my pence which was old days ago but seems to be not bleeding let's say dot of blood, at the same night i received oral sex from someone that i didn't know i ask if these things might be risk for HIV, am marred and didnt penetrate my wife since 22 aug only make kisses and oral to her

Edward W. Hook M.D.

9 months ago

Welcome to our Forum. Thanks for your questions. Nothing you describe has put you at risk for HIV.. The wounds and scratches on your hands do not put you at risk for acquiring HIV.

Similarly, receipt of masturbation by another person is also a no risk activity, even if that person has HIV. It is typical for persons who take part in mutual masturbation of one another to transfer genital secretions from one person to another yet this is NOT associated with any risk.

Nothing you describe suggests any need for concern or any need for testing. Please don't worry. EWH

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9 months ago

Many thanks for your response Doctor

What about the Oral Sex i received as i said "at the same night i received oral sex from someone that i didn't know i ask if these things might be a risk for HIV," with some let's say small wounds ( like dote) ?

Just to clarify i know a lot about HIV but what makes me scared is that i Live in Iraq where the stigma is high level and also i care about my wife. at the end, i ask ALLAH to save you and your loved ones

Edward W. Hook M.D.

9 months ago

Thanks for the additional information. No one has ever been proven to acquire HIV from receipt of oral sex. You are not going to be the first. Please don't worry. EWH---

9 months ago

Dear Doctor

My wife kept chasing me to Have sex, but unfortunately, i told her the truth she laughed at me and insisted to do but i rejected and promised her that we will do once i got tested

now what kind of test should i have when i finish the 90 days ?

ill use self test kit for HIV Ab

when its Negative ill get a lab test for others inshallah

your advise please am crying all the time

Edward W. Hook M.D.

9 months ago

As I said above, no one has ever gotten HIV from receiving oral sex or from receipt of masturbation. You are not the first. If you must test at 90 days, any test for HIV will be conclusive and prove that you were not infected.

This is my third reply to your questions. Therefore, the thread will now be closed. Please don’t worry. EWH.

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