[Question #12263] Possible std risk

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9 months ago
Hello, I made a mistake by going to a massage parlar. It was a sorry one and I did get a happy ending mean she Rubén my pensó and balls. Dirime the process she started to blow on my penis like literal y blowing air but I dont think her lips made any contact with my penis, but it was close and hard to tell for sure. She uses a oil that looked very sorry. I  am wondering what STIs I am at risk for and how long I need to wait for testing. I know I screwed up so I am wondering if I can still have sex with my partner or of i am putting they at risk. Thank you.
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9 months ago
I just wanted to add that i am very worried
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9 months ago
I also wanted to add that i think some spit dropletts did get on my penis
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9 months ago
And that i did not notice any sores on the lips but it was kind of dark
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
9 months ago

Welcome back to our Forum.  Thanks for your questions.  I'll be glad to comment.  I think you are worrying too much. 

 

This is your 10th question related to a low or virtually no risk event.  You have an unrealistic fear of STIs.  The encounter you describe did not put you at risk for any STI, including HIV.  Receipt of masturbation is a no risk activity for any STI.  Similarly, there is no risk from having someone blow their breath on your penis or anywhere else and no risk if some of her spit got onto your penis.

 

As I said above, I see nothing you have described to worry about and no medical or scientific reason for testing of any sort. 

 

You have two follow-ups remaining.  EWH

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9 months ago
Since you are the expert i will stop worrying about this. I will seek help about my irrestionsl fears and as always thank you so much. I must ask if u think it’s possible her lips briefly touched my penis and maybe i didnt notice if then i would be at risk for hérpes or sypillis 
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
9 months ago
Even if her lips briefly touch  your penis you would not be at risk.  Please don't worry.  If you cannot, I encourage you to seek help.  EWH---
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9 months ago
Okay I believe you. Thank you so much 
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9 months ago
I assume maybe you say there’s no risk because her would have maybe touched so briefly that it couldn’t rub in something like herpes or am I over thinking it. At first I really didn’t think her lips touched my penis
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
9 months ago
This will be the final response.  Should you return, it is likely that your question will be deleted without a response and without return of your posting fee.

1.  You do not know she was infected.
2.  If she had been infected in the past, you do not know that there was a syphilis or lesion present from which infection could be transmitted.
3.  Friction plays in important role in transmission - you do not even know that her lips touched your penis.

As I said above, this was your 1oth post about low risk events.  You are more worried about STIs than you should be.  You should consider that and consider exploring it with a trained counselor.  It can't be good for you to go through life wondering about risk.  

I wish you the best but again, please do not return.  EWH
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