The exposure you describe was low risk for herpes.  When persons acquire herpes from oral sex, they typically develop lesions within 10 days of exposure and the type of herpes the acquire is caused by HSV-1, the virus that causes cold sores.  About 60% of adults already have HSV-1 and most other do not know it making them not vulnerable to acquiring a new infection.  Finally, even if your either of your partners had oral HSV-1 and you have not, the mathematical risk of acquiring infection is estimated to be less than 1 in 1000 at most.

Squeezing the penis in the way you describe is irritating and a certain amount of clear discharge from the penis is normal and becomes more likely with squeezing.  This is likely the cause of the discharge you noticed. Please stop squeezing.  If you had herpes, you would not need to squeeze your penis to see evidence

Finally, while blood tests for herpes are not very good, your negative tests provide yet more evidence that you did not acquire herpes from the encounter you describe.  

Please don't worry about herpes.  EWH

"Finally, even if your either of your partners had oral HSV-1 and you have not, the mathematical risk of acquiring infection is estimated to be less than 1 in 1000 at most."  Ive read that majority new cases are due to HSV1 especially with younger people because of having more oral sex, so does your comment mean due to the fact i dont have bumps or blisters that my exposure was 1 in 1000 at most? And also if blood test atent good, should my negative test be trusted? I had already made up my mind to do one more on monday and stop. In your expert opinion, should i do another one? Also is the fact that  my wife hasnt had any issues more reassuring?Ive read that people can hsve herpes and no bumps etc, but ive been trying to tell myself whats the odds that i got it, gave it to her and neither of us have visible bumps? Also the duration of my symptoms didnt seem to be typical for herpes. At this point with the different antibiotics taken, negative STD test plus the herpes test, can I have sex with wife again even with lingering symptoms for this long? And although stress could be piling up, would body soreness and those type symptoms start nearly 2 months after 1st symptom? My shoulder blades, back of shoulders, around rib cage have been sore for past 2 weeks, havent been doing any excersing other than my daily job, slept on a futon about 3 weeks ago while floors were being redone and woke up a little sore, but seem like it shouldnt still be, i lounge in my recliner daily and sleep overnight sometimes since all of this and wondering if that has anythijg to do with it, climbed under house with dad to fix some pipes 2 weeks ago, but ive never stayed sore this long. Sorry for rambling, trying to get closure, 

Your negative test is suggestive but not definitive.  Personally, I would not bother to test more.  That said, testing is always a personal decision.

Your other symptoms are in no way suggestive of herpes.  You need to move on.

You have one follow-up remaining.  EWH

Your question mentioned "tests" and "antibiotics" but did not give specifics.  That said,  your symptoms do not suggest an STI.  I would advise you to see a urologist to explore non-STI causes of your symptoms.

This completes this thread which will now be closed.  EWH