Hope all is well. Unfortunately I am back with a second incident.  I have reviewed other questions but I would still like to have an answer just for mine. Please note I did test for previous slip up 2 months ago. Everything negative.  So I have a clean slate. This is my only 2nd incident outside of my over 20 year marriage. I went to a licensed " supossedly" spa. Mid way though the lady put the head of my penis only in her mouth while I was played down. I pulled back right away. So no going in and out or actual blow job. Nothing else happened. No hand job no other touching. I got up got dressed and went to the front to complain. This happened yesterday and I really need to know my real risks as you are the experts. She was Asian about 25 years old. Only been massaging for 4 months. Is it appropriate for me to ask her to get tested for anything? I don't want to infection my wife. I know..this is messy again. But I do truly feel this isn't my fault. If I do need to test what and when.

Thank you sir.

Please note this was probably a second or less all together. Not sure if that changes anything. 

Regards. 

This question has similarities to your previous two. All of them reflect unwarranted fears of STI. Having had only rare non-marital sexual experiences, it is understandable that you are relatively naive about actual risks of various sexual practices. But the bottom line is that you always will be at very low risk for any infection until and unless you have unprotected penile penetration into a partner's vagina or rectum. Oral sex is always low risk, even with several minutes exposure to completion. First, active, transmissible oral STIs are uncommon, so usually there is no infection to be transmitted. Second, most STI bacteria and viruses involving the mouth and throat are not easily transmitted, and for some there is no risk at all. For example, there has never been a proved case of HIV transmitted moth to penis.

In this case, the very brief oral exposure of your penis carried no risk at all. I would not advise testing, or asking your massage partner to be tested. Putting it in personal terms, if somehow I were in your situation, I would not be tested and would continue unprotected sex with my wife without any worry at all.

My only other advice is that given your apparent and relatively new proclivities to extramarital experimentation, I would advise you to have condoms handy in event of similar activities in the future -- or assure ahead of time that the sex or massage worker has them available. The next time, you might find yourself tempted to have real sex. And even for oral sex, even though condoms generally are not necessary because of the low risk, there's no good reason not to use them, which should eliminate any worries about STI after the event is completed.

I hope these comments are helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear.

HHH, MD

 I'm assuming the no risk assessment is for all stis?? 

Thanks for the thanks. I'm glad to have helped.

Will take a small break physically  to heal both of us and reflect.

Thank you. Your service is worth way more than what you charge.

Thanks for the thanks. I'm glad to have helped.