[Question #12866] risk

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4 months ago
The doctor has provided services twice before. 1: Spa essential oil masturbation. At first, the young lady massages the entire body with essential oil, and then masturbates. The young lady uses both hands to press the essential oil forcefully towards the urethral opening. If there is a problem with the essential oil and the urethral opening is damaged, is there a risk of infection? Because she had a rash on her body after coming back, I was wondering if the essential oil might not be clean. During the process, the young lady even supported her hand on the bed sheet and occasionally exchanged her hands. I don't know if the bed sheet is clean or not, and if she used it properly or changed it directly. 2: At first, the young lady gave me a bath, then wore a condom for oral sex, licked my nipples for a long time, and finally masturbated while wearing a condom. During the process, the young lady touched her vagina with her first hand and had a lot of vaginal water. Later, she exchanged two hands for masturbation. After taking a shower and resting for a while, I started serving again. At first, it was the same as before, and the young lady also touched her vagina. Later, the young lady was worried that she didn't have enough time, so she used the hand that touched her vagina to put on a condom, and then came up for sexual intercourse directly. Afterwards, I checked if the condom was broken, but I didn't check it carefully. I asked the young lady if the condom was damaged, but she didn't give a formal answer. I was a little scared to think about it, but the key is that she came up directly without pushing it away. Also, I was thinking about whether the same condom used for oral sex, masturbation, and sexual intercourse would be damaged, but I didn't carefully examine it. The combination of these behaviors in the second scenario prompts you to analyze whether these behaviors pose a risk of HIV infection or syphilis. Should you undergo testing at that time?
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4 months ago
The doctor had too many words to write just now. I found pimples on my penis last night when I went to the bathroom. They didn't hurt or itch even after being touched or squeezed. After squeezing, there was some water on my hands, but later it became swollen. I didn't feel any pain when taking a shower with body wash. I woke up this morning and saw that the swelling was gone, but the pimples were still there. So I'm a little worried to consult. There are also some cases where I had hemorrhoids in my anus during intercourse while wearing a condom that day. Before doing it, I used shower gel to wash my anus, and during oral sex, the saliva and vaginal secretions flowed down to the hemorrhoids. Is there any risk of infection because there is blood in the stool and also when wiping. The two situations involve analyzing whether these behaviors pose a risk of HIV and syphilis infection, and whether or not to undergo testing. Originally, there was nothing wrong, but during this period, the person was very tired, slow to react, and had been wanting to sleep. Then, the problem that occurred yesterday made you feel uneasy and wanted to ask what was going on?
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
4 months ago
Welcome to the forum. Unfortunately, your question is far too long; they must not spill over into a second window; the moderators can't take 10-15 minutes to just read the question. Condense to no more than half the current length and repost it in a follow-up window.

As best I can tell from scanning this, it appears you are at little or no risk for any STI.

If your opening line ("The doctor has provided services twice before") means you have posted other question on our forum, please provide the question numbers of your previous discussions. Thank you for your understanding.

HHH, MD
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4 months ago
Doctor, I'm sorry that my question is quite lengthy. I haven't consulted anywhere else, and today is my first consultation. I just want to consult whether essential oil masturbation, wearing condoms for sexual intercourse, and wearing condoms for oral sex without carefully checking for condom damage pose a risk of HIV infection, syphilis, or other sexually transmitted diseases, and whether they should be checked later. Because some say there is a risk, while others say there is no risk, I am not sure, so I came to consult with you.
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
4 months ago
Thanks for the condensed information.

Even with no protection at all, oral sex is very low risk. No risk at all for HIV and very low risk for all other STIs. However, it would be helpful to know more about the sexual exposure you are concerned about. Are you male or female? The sex of your partner(s)? What else do you know about your partner(s)? Where did the exposure take place (city, country, etc)? Most likely you do not need to be tested, but I might have more advice after you provide this information.

HHH, MD
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4 months ago
Doctor, I am a male and my sexual partner is a female prostitute. In Guangdong Province, China, the female's hometown is Chongqing, and she does not work in one place. She works in her rented apartment and communicates through the internet.
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
4 months ago
Thanks for the additional information. This informaiton confirms my judgment that there was little chance for any STI. I see no need for testing. If you have a regular partner, you can continue your normal sexual activities with no risk to her.---
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4 months ago
Okay doctor, I contacted the madam through the internet. The ladies are not fixed and they all provide services in their rented apartments through the address provided by the madam. I don't even know the young lady, so should we check for HIV and syphilis when the time comes. What's going on with the problem I'm facing now? So I'm worried about consulting an authoritative doctor.
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
4 months ago
I don't understand what you mean by "not fixed". Maybe you mean not tested for STIs? (Maybe you need a better translation program.)  I don't know what you mean by "the problem I'm facing now"; you haven't described any symptoms (at least not in the shortened question). This information does not change my evaluation or advice. I still see no need for testing. But why are you "worried about consulting an authoritative doctor"?? It seems that is exactly what you should do -- see a doctor and follow their advice about risks and testing.

Threads are closed after two follow-up questions and replies, so that ends this thread. I hope the discussion has been helpful. Best wishes and stay safe.
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