[Question #12890] Possible STD risks and anxiety of last encounters

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4 months ago
Hello medical staff, I was wondering what my potential risks are from these last few sexual encounters. All of these encounters were done at massage parlors with some functioning as sex workers. My last exposure was unprotected oral around 2 weeks ago (4/1/25), my exposure prior to that was protected oral and vaginal sex (3/23/25 - 3/24/25), and my exposure before then was near the end of February. I just can't seem to convince myself 100% that I haven't caught anything. I am also worried because these were done under discretion and I have a girlfriend that I don't want to risk giving anything to. In addition, around 2.5 weeks ago I got a rash on my groin near the dorsal side of the base of my penis that wasn't really painful, but a bit tender to the touch and had maybe 4 to 5 bumps on it that were nor pus filled or water filled to my knowledge and did not arrive in a cluster. This rash I noticed maybe a day or two before my bout of unprotected oral. I used some antifungal cream on it and it began to recover a day or two after applying the topical, and I went to my PCP where I showed him the before and after of using the cream to which he told me that it's very likely fungal and just jock itch and prescribed me a different antifungal with steroids to help with it. 10 days after constant application and the rash is almost gone. My questions would just be: 1) Do I have to paranoid that the rash was anything more than fungal in this case? The fact that there were bumps and that I didn't really notice if they were water filled blisters is really making me doubt if I just overlooked it? 2) Was I at risk for anything from these last three sexual encounters? (I am especially paranoid of herpes) 3) Would it be safe to assume I'm clean and continue having unprotected sex with my girlfriend? Also, had two full STD (blood and urine) tests since the 4/1 exposure, all negative. Thank you!
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4 months ago
Also I have not had any other symptoms (besides the rash if can even be considered a symptom) such as discharge, lesions or sores (again assuming the rash was not that), nor burning urination.
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
4 months ago
Welcome to the Forum.  Thanks for your questions and your implied confidence in our service.  I'll be glad to comment.  As a generalization, the comments you describe were relatively low risk- most commercial sex workers do not have STIs, you used condoms for your vaginal exposures and receipt of oral sex is relatively low risk.  In addition, most single exposures to any infected person is unlikely to transmit the infection (assuming that the exposures you describe were with different partners.  The absence of symptoms other than the rash you describe and your negative tests effectively rule out STIs ( if your rash were syphilis, your syphilis blood test would have been positive.  

You do not mention what tests you had.  I presume testing included urine tests for gonorrhea and chlamydia and that your blood tests were for HIV and syphilis (I hope you did not have blood tests for syphilis).

The lesions you describe sound nothing like an initial outbreak of herpes.  As you mention herpes lesions appear as water blisters and lesions from initial outbreaks last about 7-10 days.  In response to your specific questions:

1) Do I have to paranoid that the rash was anything more than fungal in this case? The fact that there were bumps and that I didn't really notice if they were water filled blisters is really making me doubt if I just overlooked it?
See my comments above.

 2) Was I at risk for anything from these last three sexual encounters?
See the comments above.

 3) Would it be safe to assume I'm clean and continue having unprotected sex with my girlfriend?
Given the information you have provided  I would not hesitate to have unprotected sex with your GF

I hope that this information is helpful.  EWH
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4 months ago
Yes, sorry for not specifying on the tests, I had a syphilis AB igg, HIV 1+2 AB + HIV 1 p24 Ag qualitative immunoassay, serum, hepatitis C virus Ab, serum, chlamydia + gonorrhea RNA, QL, HBsAg, serum, trichomonas vaginalis RNA, tma, genital, and HSV2 and 1 igg Ab inhibition, serum or plasma done.
All these exposures were done with different sex workers, and a different masseuse at different locations, they are walk-in but also appointment based, and when I asked them (though to be taken with a grain of salt as they are sex workers), they said they were all clean and get tested and inspected.

I wanted to ask if I did have an initial outbreak if the symptoms would have been extremely glaring, and if I should be worried about having any false negatives on the tests I mentioned above? I know for herpes specifically there is a risk of running a false negative so close to exposure due to serological window periods, but when do you think by that the test will be conclusive? If it helps my HSV-1 and 2 antibodies have always been <.2.

Really thank you for the reassurance and apart from the information I provided is there any other clarity I can offer that would reinforce your conclusions?
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4 months ago
Also I've had like a dull, but not really noticeable aching and kind of irritable sensitivity? On my pelvis and urethra, I don't know if these are just psychosomatic symptoms and I'm over monitoring myself, but is that also something to consider? And some very slight burning sensations when I urinate after not drinking as much water as I usually do (so when my urine is like yellow or darker so anything but close to clear)
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
4 months ago
That's a lot of tests- I hope they were not too expensive.  FYI, hepatitis C and hepatitis B are so rare that there is no medical reason for testing and HSV antibody tests this son after an exposure are of little use.  I urge you to stop testing and move forward.  

You have one follow-up left.  EWH
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4 months ago
Thank you again, you telling me to move forward is helping. I'll just use the testing to ease my anxiety. The testing was not expensive, thankfully, but also thank you for your concern in that regard!

Then lastly, how obvious are herpes symptoms upon initial outbreak? For whatever reason, I'm the most paranoid about herpes in specific? Could you again highlight, for herpes in particular, the risk these encounters would have? Given that none of the workers looked to have any noticeable outbreaks
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4 months ago
I realize I'm beating a dead horse here, but just hearing your opinions and what you have to say to all these people on these forum is especially reassuring to me given your expertise. Thank you again.
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4 months ago
Oh, and when will HSV antibody tests be conclusive?
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
4 months ago
Final responses. 

The lesions you describe in no way suggest herpes.  There is no realistic risk of HSV-2 from receipt of oral sex and condoms were used for the genital exposures which markedly reduce HSV risk.   You need to give up on that.  Blood tests for herpes can take up to 6-8 months to be conclusive and even then they can miss 5-10% of infections.  That said, I'll urge you again to not worry about HSV.

This completes this thread.  Please don't worry.  EWH


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