hi doctor, how are you? Around 38 to 35 days I went to a massage parlor Asian massage place where I had vagina sex with the Asian lady I do remember her putting a condom on with lube. The sex lasted around 10 to 15 seconds when I got up I do remember seeing the condom on me. I don’t remember seeing a rip or broken I don’t remember it going down at all. I do remember her removing the condom I don’t remember seeing it broke or seen it pulled down, but I’m scared that it did during the time she did clean me up so I am here because seven days after I I felt a little burning sensation when I almost peed, but not too much. I did not notice any discharge from my penis or any leisure I did notice. I had a rash in my penis, head and micro little tears in my foreskin INI am on circumcise. I am worried that I might’ve caught something during that encounter and if I did, what are the odds of me catching something out of that I am super worried and anxious. I do have a wife that I haven’t had sex with. That’s why I did this one time mistake. I’m afraid that I’m gonna get infected if I wasn’t so anxiety, I wouldn’t have thought more about it. And your professional opinion if I was your patient, were you asked for me to test will you? Should I be this worried? I don’t want time exposure that I got. I’m afraid of getting my wife infected and I got infected from one at one time, what are the odds of me getting infected? I don’t want time exposure Thank you doctor. 

I’m so sorry I forgot to add. I also experience flu line symptoms like sore throat, coughing no fever around four days ago it went away already. I don’t know if that has to do with HIV or any other STD like I said I do suffer from anxiety and I’m talking with my therapist, I’m just super worried I days I don’t know and your professional opinion is it really worth me stressing this much? I’m worried that I’m gonna test positive over a one time encounter that I’m never gonna do this again not worth my anxiety. The only reason I got super excited cause like I said, I’m sorry filling the symptoms and what are the odds of me catching something out of one time exposure thank you doctors. 

Oh sorry doctor should I hold off on sex with my wife? If it does happen I don’t wanna get her infected and should I go test if you were in my shoes?

Again, sorry doctor I did see your form that you have told other people that you were recommend to test only if it was more than a one time encounter is this true?

If I go test, do you guys believe that I will come out negative out of a one time exposure for hiv and std 

Add day it has 28 to 30 ago sorry 

Welcome to our forum. Thank you for your questions. The encounter you described was virtually no risk. Most commercial sex workers do not have HIV or STI’s and even when they do most single encounters do not lead to infection. In your case, in addition, a condom was used, which reduces your risk of infection to virtually zero.  From your description, I am confident that your condo did not break. When condoms fail, they break wide open, leaving no doubt that they have failed.---

Thanks so much dr i trust you advise so much I will just test for my on peace of mind if test i need to wait till 6 week to get a conclusive diagnosis right . If test you believe i will get negative test results from my one time exposure. Right 

And gain sorry i am working on my anxiety i just want to sure and safe and you dr are the best in you field 

If you test with a 4th generation HIV test which tests for both HIV antigen and antibodies to the virus, results will be more than 98% conclusive at 4 weeks and completely conclusive at 6 weeks.  Depending on your level of anxiety, if you want to test earlier, an HIV RNA PCR test will provide conclusive results at any time more than 11 days after your last encounter.---

Thanks dr I am feeling more confident I 

Due to the experience that you guys have, I will take your guys advice and move forward. Thank you. It’s been a tough couple weeks. I really appreciate.

Sorry, Dr. one more thing if I was exposed for some reason out of one time exposure, will you have asked me to test if I was in your clinic?

I really just want to move on with out test and I know you will agree with me I am want to confirm that you agree too 

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