Then I had a hand job without lotion that's it.

Next day I woke up with pelvic burning sensation and feel full....

My brain is always thinking about this weird discomfort in the pelvic.. 

The tip of penis burning has subside but now it's pelvic hurting...I'm a male.

Do I need antibiotics? Did I catch std? If so what did I get?

I definitely did not have this prior to this incident. 

Is this an std caused by hand job and a shower with soap? 

- pelvic area burning 

- the burning sensation can be felt through the thigh

- constant pain and burning in bladder area

- tip of penis stings initially when urinating.

It's been 24 hours since encounter....I feel like I'm on fire.

What std doc did I get from this?

Was it the shower with soap or hand job...not sure how something could be acquired unless the soap was infected with a bacteria and all of it just went into my urethra 

Please help I'm overseas in another country right now and I don't get back to US until few weeks...idk how to get antibiotics here.

Similar to your question two years ago, your symptoms do not fit well with any STI -- although this time at least the answer is very clear for your first symptom, painful urination after the shower. Soap is very irritating when it gets into the meatus (penile opening) and always causes significant pain, which then usually clears up after urinating a few times. But all symptoms after that are most consistent with genitally focused anxiety. Anxiety doesn't create symptoms, but it can greatly magnify minor symptoms or even normal body sensations that, without the anxiety or stress or worry, would be ignored or not even noticed. No STI causes the symptoms you described. Further, no STI ever is caught from hand-genital contact, so you were not at risk. But it is your discomfort with the sexual event -- whether shame, guilt, or just worry about STI -- that is the problem here. You clearly have no infection from the event. 

Those comments pretty well answer your specific questions, but to be explicit and assure no misunderstanding:

"I definitely did not have this prior to this incident." That doesn't mean it's an infection. I have explained how your emotional situation is the likely cause. This is much like tension headaches:  anxiety and stress cause tightening of muscles in the scalp and neck, which cause the pain. Both in tension headaches and your situation, the pain and other sensations are real; they have a physiologic origin and are not simply in your head. But still, no infection. The same is true of every symptom you mention:  pelvic area and thigh "burning"; bladder area discomfort; penile tip pain with urination. " 24 hours since encounter....I feel like I'm on fire" also is typical for anxiety.

"Was it the shower with soap or hand job"? Definitely the soap was the initial problem. Your symptoms have nothing to do with the hand job except that that event heightened your fears of infection and perhaps is an event you regret or feel shame about. 

"idk how to get antibiotics here":  You do not need antibiotics, which would not help your symptoms. You do not need STI testing. Believe it -- and then your symptoms will clear up.

I hope these comments are helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear.

HHH, MD

Yesterday incident is new. I had hand job and instantly had burning tip of penis.

24 hours later I'm having constant bladder pain , urinary pain.  The bladder feels burning and stinging pain.

I know you said no std, but how about common bacteria like e coli or something else...what else can cause burning sensation that isn't going away...its getting worsen.

Just like last time I think I caught something...

As you said soap irritation should go away...this isn't going away...its getting worse..

Any suggestions? Burning sensation is painful. 

I did not say you are "making up" your symptoms. Carefully re-read my initial reply, where I said I know the pain is real and explained how this happens.

Yes the event is exactly as described... the private area was clean with soap and then a hand job.

I will see a urologist in person but I'm still having symptoms of bladder discomfort so idk...but good to know it's not sti. 

That completes the two follow-up exchanges included with each question and so ends this thread. I hope the discussion has been helpful. Best wishes and stay safe.