[Question #13044] Strip club experience - symptom

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10 months ago
I visited strip club on 6th May, where I had lap dance with a nude dancer (no underwear or top). I had my clothes on (tshirt, underwear, pants) she also placed a hanky on my lap and grinded on my lap for around 10 minute. During the process I ejacuated in my underwear and she continued to grind on me. At the end I had some moisture on top of my pant didn’t check if it passed through.

2 days after this incident I did leg workout and exhausted my self resulting in muscle cramps for 2 days and exhaustion so some of my initial symptom can be because of my workout (have happened to me before where I normally get sick for a week after leg workout)
Symptom
1) 2-3 days after this incident I got diarrhea which lasted for 1 week

2) after 1 week I got constipation where I did not poop for almost 1 week, or very minimal poop. During my constipation week some white puss and later blood started to come out from my rectum when I squeezed an under the skin pimple. This could be because of ingrown hair or constipation or both since I see some hair is growing in that region 

3) there where also 2 white pimple on my rectum which disappeared in 1 day, and base of my pubic hair was white but after I took bath all that went away but I think my rectum area is still dry

4) I have very dry scalp right now and lots of dandruff, but I always had this issue since last 3 years I forgot about it a bit but now I am noticing every little thing

4) there are some skin peel on my palm very minimal like on 3-4 spots

5) All this time I had slight body ache, light headed, and I am getting tired faster not sure if this is my anxiety 

What should I do now, get tested because from all the replies in this forum sti cannot pass through clothing
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
10 months ago
Welcome to our Forum. Thanks for your questions.  I'll be glad to comment.  You are getting a reply more quickly than is typical because I happened to be on the site when your question arrived.  Any follow-ups will take longer.

The exposure you describe was a no risk event.  You did not penetrate her and grinding is a form or masturbation which is a no risk event.  No STIs, including HIV are transmitted through clothing- even when the cloth is thin and becomes wet with genital secretions .  Further, your symptoms began too soon to be due to an STI, including HIV.  From a medical and scientific perspective there is nothing to worry about and no need for testing.  Despite this some of our clients choose to test for the reassurance that a negative test provides.  The symptoms of recently acquired HIV are due to the presence of the virus and thus, if any of your symptoms were due to HIV a test would be positive at this time.  While I see no need for testing, if you choose to test, I am confident that the test will show that you were not infected.

I hope this information is helpful.  EWH
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10 months ago
I don’t think I penetrated her or else I would have felt, do you think penetration is possible through 3 layer of clothing ?
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
10 months ago
As I said above- HIC cannot be transmitted though cloth.  This was a no risk event. 

If you penetrated her, you would know it.  Penetration through 3 layers of cloth is not possible.  

You need to stop worrying.  EWH
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