I had a one night fling one night on vacation a months ago. We were both very very intoxicated and ended up late night swimming in a pool. Things got hot super super fast. I have HSV - 2 and HSV-1. I refused to have intercourse but allowed his fingers inside me with my bottom suit still on. Everything that I've read tells me that 1. If I wasn't having a breakout and the area I have had breakouts  on in the past was covered by my panties he will be fine because the virus can not be transmittef to the fingers through clothes in this scenario. 2. The virus can not live in the chlorine in the pool. 3. I vagly remember I briefly gave him some oral sex for a short time too in the pool.  Please clarify. I feel  ill that I could of possibly infected him during a drunk poor choice moment.