Went to a club 11 days ago and was around a lot of people for 3-4 hours and took a girl home, has protected oral and vaginal sex but she got on top I wasn't feeling very good so I actually stopped it after no more than a couple minutes and ended the encounter. 24-36 hours after I developed a headache and a runny nose that has lasted until today. I don't ever really get sick even with covid I never got it and the only symptom I still have is this damn runny nose that seems odd for over 10 days. I also have another inflamed red with liquid bump about two inches above my penis on my v line. It's only one and there was a hair coming out of it, I plucked it it out because I thought it was an ingrown hair and I popped it myself and the inside appeared we white, anyways day later it looks as if it I never popped it and I could probably pop it again but won't. Light tingles but no burning when I pee and not much itching. 

Anything to be worried about? Is hsv2 or anything that causes warts common on areas above your penis that's just skin to skin as she was on top and I can imagine parts of her came on contact with that area. I was going to assume it's nothing but the runny nose made me think otherwise since I'm not one to get sick, thoughts? Am I ok to sleep with others and overthinking 

The encounter you describe was condom protected, safe sex. The symptoms you describe such as a runny nose are not suggestive of any STI.

The description of the lesion/red bump that you describe is a very good description of folliculitis and that. It recurred after being scraped off is typical.  My advice would be to go after it with soap and water.

Nothing you describe suggests a need for STI testing.  EWH

If it's really nothing to worry about then I hope you have a good day and thank you for the information 

This really isn’t something to be worried about.

One follow up remaining.  EWH