[Question #13236] Oral sex stds
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1 months ago
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Hola Doctor,
This is Marcos and I am not going to ask about HIV since in my last questions you helped me by indicating that my body to body massage encounters even if there was a brief unintentional dip in during the rubbing there was no risk and I could continue with unprotected sex with my wife as I am doing.
It's about oral sex and the possible STDs it can cause, given my excessive concern and natural sex with my wife I always try to avoid this oral too but it must have happened about three times in a year, with masseuses who were not escorts and didn't seem risky, they were also brief not until the end etc although on two occasions I did introduce my penis quite deep into her throat for a few seconds.
The thing is that I haven't had any symptoms like the ones you report in other posts, no discomfort, no discharge etc. I don't see any marks or wounds on my penis either but I've read that some std can be asymptomatic right?
It is taking us a year to become parents and now we are going to start more detailed tests such as to see if I have any bacteria in my semen.... I had a semen analysis and all the values were great except for a terastorpermia of 3% (7 years ago when I was single I had epidymitis).
Could I have some chlamydia or ghonorrhoea in my body to be cured? I say this to get tested beforehand
Thank you very much
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
1 months ago
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This question is not a different topic than your previous ones just because it asks about STDs other than HIV. You were no more at risk of gonorrhea, chlamydia, or any other STD than you were for HIV -- which is obvious in your previous discussions. You could not have acquired any STD from the non-marital exposures you have described and therefore cannot infect your wife with any STD, either by oral or vaginal sex. If either of you ever tests positive for gonorrhea or chlamydia, it would have to mean your wife had other sex partners.
You need psychiatric care to understand why you have such difficulty believing the reasoned, science based explanations Dr. Hook gave you; and why that information has not relieved you anxiety. Your thinking on all this is disordered. I suggest. counseling or similar care from compassion, not criticism.
As you have been informed previously, repeated anxiety driven questions on the same topic are not permitted. This thread is being closed without further discussion. Any further ones will simply be deleted without even this much reply, and without refund of the posting fee. Thank you for your understanding.
HHH, MD
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