I’m a male and received a massage two weeks at a spa from a female with a happy ending. During the massage I also played with her anus using my fingers for roughly a minute. What are the chances that I contracted HSV from the hand contact on my penis and my fingers touching her anus? My big concern is that when cleaning up I touched my penis after the anal play and infected myself with HSV. Not sure how common anal HSV is and the transmission risk. Any insight you could provide would be great.

The risk here is just so close to zero, I would not worry about this if it were me.  We don't believe that fingers are a reasonable method of transmission.  Even if you had been touching her vagina instead of her anus.---

Thank you, Terri. You put my mind at ease 

You're welcome---