Hi! I’m ashamed that I find myself here but need to ask a question: so 4 days ago I was in a private room in strip club and even though I barely had only protected oral sex I also fingered her and when wearing the condom accidentally touched the inside part of the condom. And lastly my jean’s  zipper was off and we simulated vaginal sex and my penis(with condom) might touched to her vagina but it didn’t feel like it entered l. So my question is should I get tested for hiv or other stis? I’m married and feeling ashamed and nervous about that event. I always test as you can see from my previous answers

Welcome back. However, you asked very similar questions in your two previous threads. The answers are the same. There was no risk of HIV or any STI from these events. You do not need testing for anything and can safely continue unprotected sex with your life.---

Thank you so much doctor for the answer!

Just to follow up: seems like my superficial parotid lymph node under left ear is a little swollen. But only that even though I didn’t have sex and only that episode of touching inside condom with potentially vaginal fluid on finger, it still makes me worried 

Neither HIV nor any other STI ever could cause a single lymph node enlargement as the only symptom. This has nothing to do with the sexual exposure you are worried about.---
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Today 17 days passed after that event and today I can see some small bump like areas in my torso. Except from that I don’t have any symptoms and in general feeling good without fatigue. My question is can this be because of acute hiv and do symptoms appear after 17 days or it’s too late or early?

The timing is consistent with HIV, but your symptoms do not go along with HIV at all and I repeat you were not at risk. Nevertheless, my advice is to have an HIV RNA PCR test, The negative result will prove you don't have it and no further testing will be needed.---
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