[Question #13318] Syphillis concern
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
12 days ago
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Welcome; thanks for your question and your confidence in our forum. I was online when your question came in: most users should not expect nearly real time replies!
You were at little risk for any STI from the exposure described. Unprotected oral sex isn't entirely risk free but there's a low chance of any STI and truly zero risk for HIV. In addition, your negative gon/chl tests were conclusive and the others nearly so.
It is unlikely your symptoms have anything to do with the sexual exposure a month ago, but not impossible. Urethral pain (without discharge) usually does not indicate any STI, and a rash in the groin never does. You are correct it is "difficult to tell" by self examination whether the urethra is normal or not -- but if it were syphilis, you would expect to have an obviously visible open sore (chancre). That said, if there is tenderness along your penis -- i.e. a sore spot if you gently squeeze the shaft -- that could go along with syphilis (or herpes). If you have anything like this, see an experienced health care provider, ideally an STI clinic or urologist. To your numbered questions:
1. Possible chancre in your urethra? very unlikely but see my comments above.
2. RPR is positive 80-90% of the time after 27-30 days, so your negative result makes syphilis even more unlikely -- but it isn't proof.
3. See above; get examined now if you have tenderness along your penis. I would also advise evaluation if your current symptoms remain unchanged 2-3 more days, or if you start to develop discharge from the penis or other symptoms like penile sores or a tender lump in your groin.
4. It makes sense to avoid sex for the time being, to avoid the low chance of exposing your partner(s).
Another option should be considered as well. If you can contact your CSW partner, explain the situation and ask her to consider being tested. You could consider paying for it and perhaps go together for testing.
I stress that I doubt you have syphilis, herpes, or anything else from the event 4 weeks ago. But better safe than sorry, so check it out if the symptoms persist. I look forward to hearing the outcome as the next few days progress.
HHH, MD
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
3 days ago
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That completes the two follow-up comments and replies included with each question and so ends this thread. I hope the discussion has been helpful. Best wishes and stay safe.