About a week ago, I hooked up with a crossdresser. No penetration this time, however they performed oral sex on me (sucked me) and grinded on my penis with their anus (frotting). I still take PrEP everyday, not always at the same time, but everyday. I am a bit concerned, because I think due to the hard oral, I received a small cut on the side of my penis, and then they frotted on me after that. I did not see any blood or cuts on them, but I'm concerned that bodily/rectal fluids from them may have touched the cut, I'm not entirely sure if it did, it was dark. I was masturbating at times when they frotted me, so their anus wouldn't have touched, but not the entire time I think. I asked the individual if they were negative and on PrEP twice, before and after and they said yes, but didn't give me an answer on when they were last tested. I am concerned. I developed a small cold, sinuses mostly, after the encounter, has seemed to mostly go away. Hopefully just allergies. Am I in the clear or is this something to be concerned about? I am quite anxious about it. Thank you.

As for your cold, HIV doesn't do that -- no nasal congestion or "sinus" symptoms. Your suspicion of allergy is more realistic. I don't suggest HIV testing.

HHH, MD