Me again.  Sorry to bother you with questions to which I believe I already know the answer.  I try to read through the FAQ’s prior to asking questions, but this just seems faster.

I recently visited a massage parlor and engaged in mutual, unprotected oral sex for about 30-60 minutes (off and on) and protected vaginal sex.

My questions are as follows:

1. I know getting gonorrhea from receiving oral sex is rare, but possible.  I will most likely have an opportunity to have intercourse with my girlfriend on Monday of next week (5 days from now).  As a precaution, I was going to have a gonorrhea test on Friday (2 days post exposure) so that I receive the results before I see her.  Do you feel testing is necessary and is that enough incubation time to get a reliable result?

Next, while I was performing cunnilingus, I tasted what seemed like blood.  Perhaps she had recently finished her period.  If that is the case, what are the chances of hiv transmission and do you feel testing is warranted for this as well.

Thank you for all that you do.