Hope everyone is doing well. I did some research on the forum and kind of got my answer. But wanted to make sure that it is correct. Earlier today I went for a massage with a happy ending. Long story short at the end of the massage the lady touched her her vagina (I am assuming she added some lube) and then grabbed my penis for about 5 -10 seconds and then I told Her to stop. Mo real friction in that moment. She cleaned me with a napkin and then 15 minutes later I took a shower. I didn’t see any sores on her but couldn’t really tell. 

Should I worry about any STDs in general after this event? 

Should I wait some days to have sex with my partner ? 

For example as in blood or fluid I couldn’t really tell if she had any. What do you think? There was no gentical to gentical contact only hand gentiyal. They offer this services to everyone I assume. Thank you. 

As I suspect you have determined, the interactions you describe are no risk, even in the unlikely event that your masseuse had HIV or some other STI (despite their somewhat risky vocations, most masseuses of commercial worker sex workers do not have STI and in fact, tend to be better about taking precautions than most non-professionals.).  There is general agreement by experts, by the WHO, and by the CDC that receipt of masturbation is not a risk factor for acquisition of STIs. This is true, even if there is contact with genital secretions or even blood. As a result, there is no need for concern or for testing related to the interaction that you described.

I would have no concerns whatsoever about this interaction and encourage you to move forward without concern. If you have a regular partner, there is no reason to modify your intimate activities with them. I hope this information is helpful to you. EWH.

Does the risk factor play a role in let’s say

The time of if the contact is more intense? You say that fluids or blood don’t play a role ? Many websites say that? Could you elaborate ? Or does immediate contact have to happen?  And finally going back To my scenario, the incident itself was no big risk and also the time involved that it was let’s say less than 10 seconds and it was a really immediate contact after. Still the hands are not a good transmission route. Thank you! 

Regarding duration of exposure, while it makes since that longer exposures increase the risk of transmission, there are no studies of this variable to provide how it might vary.

EWH

Please don’t worry.  EWH