The risk of HIV from the encounters you describe is Low. HIV is relatively uncommon in Indonesia.  Most commercial sex workers do not have HIV and even when they do, unprotected penile, vaginal intercourse leads to acquisition of infection, on average, only once in every more than 2000 encounters. In other words, if your partner did have untreated HIV And the condom was not used, there is a more than 99.95% likelihood that you would not be infected. The fact that you use a condom makes your risk of infection even lower.  You can have confidence that your condom did its job. That you saw your ejaculate in the condo after sex proves that it worked. When condoms fail, they break wide open, leaving no doubt that they have failed.

There are no proven cases of HIV, which have been acquired through receiving oral sex. That she put your penis in her mouth is not a risk factor for HIV infection.

For a medical and scientific perspective, there is really no need for concern and very little reason for testing. On the other hand, testing is a personal choice and if you choose to test, a fourth generation HIV blood test will detect over 98% of recent infections when taking four weeks after your encounter and at six weeks would provide entirely conclusive results.

I hope this information is helpful. Please don’t worry about HIV. EWH.