Please forgive me if my question sounds silly, I hope this one is easy. I have found your groups' expertise immensely helpful and valuable. I'm hoping you could shed some incites on a potential incident that happened about a week ago? 

Basically, I met a male from a dating app at a hotel, who said he was clean of sti's. So, we each got into our own bed (which were about 2-3 feet apart) and we watched each other masturbate to completion. I was fully clothed in my bed and he was nude in his. And also want to point out - we never touched each other at all throughout this encounter as I was reluctant to be touched. I also never touched any of his fluids to the best of knowledge. I hope this means I'm ok?

Was this actually a potential risk for HIV or sti's in this scenario, even though there was no touching, no penetration? I have also started working with a therapist on my anxiety around hookups and working to stop these behaviors and hope not to be judged. Thanks again.