Thank you for this forum. I am pleased to read that you both have never been wrong with your advice in 21+ years and this is the reason that I am here. I hope you can provide concrete reassurance.

3 weeks ago I hooked up with a girl at a bar in the UAE (she is English and also living there). I regret this ordeal as I am in a relationship with my GF.

We did not have intercourse. However, later that evening I did: (1) finger her vagina, (2) lick / suck her breasts; and (3) engage in long periods of deep / French kissing.

She also briefly grabbed my penis and the tip. I cannot recall if she had any vaginal fluids on her hands as the bedroom was dark.

After reviewing other posts on this forum, I understand that the above are all no risk for HIV infection and no testing is needed. It seems that the only ways any adult can be infected is via (1) unprotected vaginal / anal sex and (2) shared needles. And hand-genital contact is also no risk even if there’s vaginal fluids on hands and the urethra is touched?

I want to put this ordeal behind me. HIV is my biggest worry due to being in MENA and the testing requirements every few years for my employment.

1. Am I in the clear with HIV? (i.e would you worry if you were in my shoes?)

2. Can I have unprotected intercourse with my GF?

Thank you.