[Question #13850] frottage with underwear to naked ass worry of symptoms

 
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Met 9 times an African Malawi girl from Jan24 to May24 with whom i get blowjob & frottage, every time she lie down on stomach naked & i am rubbing my penis to her ass spooning position for 10 min then mostly release in underwear or in her mouth.
Did my annual medical check up on 16April 2024 including hiv blood test negative.
on 20 Apr24 I got fever (sorethroat, cough, fever, bodypain) for 5 days & after 1 week again got high fever from afternoon till night with body pain for 2 days then i recovered.
As far as i remember i didnt penetrated just hard rubbing grinding & pressing on her naked ass with my underwear. I even tried fingering her ass it was so hard to finger. So my questions are
1. Does the symptom of last year in April was ARS & ongoing symptoms from 15 days of severe chills, tickle, itchy throat, clearing throat, dry cough etc is STI infection, as I am not recovering and i am having fear of hiv due to symptoms.
2. Is the risk of penetrating of penis with underwear to vagina is less compared to anal. i read anal fluids are more dangerous.
3. What are the risk of acquing hiv from African lady where hiv is rampant, if in worst case scenario i had penetrated with my thin 2 layer underwear.
4. I read Dr H said if penetration happen with boxer it is safe, as fabric acts as barrier. But Dr Hook said if the penetration is deep or the boxer is single layer only then there is risk of hiv. Also, poz forum or other Dr dont agree if dipping or penetration happen in anal with underwear it is risk of hiv.
5. i am afraid to test hiv as i m working in Gulf, if tested positive will be deported. What you think of my risk.