Last Wednesday I was staying out of town. I had to much and made a mistake. I had unprotected oral sex (giving & receiving) from a stripper, as well as protected vaginal sex. Ive been freaking out since because I'm married and I love my wife. I've never done something this stupid before. One thing I won't do is pass something to her. I researched and took doxypep the next day. I know it's early but I went got a full panel test done from std check yesterday. So far all clear. However my penis has been itchy since the following day. No other symptoms have followed. I did use wipes on my genitals after the incident. So my question is, how likely is it that I caught something. Am I making myself itch due to constant thoughts and focus on it or is it a true symptom? How much stress should, separate from the guilt I already feel should I be under?

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Thanks doctor Handsfield. That is reassuring. My biggest concerns were syphilis because of the long wait for accurate testing, and herpes. You mentioned the syphilis, what about herpes cause again I dont want to pass anything to her. Obviously I don't want to blow up my life for a drunken mistake, but beyond that and more importantly don't want to give her a lifelong disease because I was stupid.   

The chance of herpes from any single one-off encounter, even with unprotected vaginal sex to completion, is probably under one chance in 10,000. With oral plus condom protected vagina, maybe one in a million? The tests for HSV are not accurate enough to recommend their use in this situation. With no symptoms to suggest herpes, you shouldn't be worried about it. Syphilis was little or no risk to begin with and has been 100% prevented by the doxycycline. You're definitely home free for both.---

One in a million really? It just seems like everything I've read makes it seem like the chances are much higher. Of course that could be paranoia causing biases. That said the itch hasn't gone away, but you're saying that I can have confidence that whatever that itch is, it's not the prodormal symptoms of impending breakout and I won't risk giving it to my wife? 

There are no solid data, but I would stand by one in a million in your situation. (Searching online about health issues, stick with professional or professionally moderated sites and especially avoid sites by and for people with the problem or worried about the problem you are searching. Like reddit for example. Anyone can write whatever they want.) Herpes is not a likely case of itching with no other symptoms. I still see no risk for your wife.---