[Question #14067] Follow up questions

 
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1 hours ago
Hello doctor.

I think there's a confusion on some of the answers and I wasted my last follow up question. The focus of my question changed too so I'm starting a new post if allowed.

To recap. I'm married and had an extra marital affair. Two exposures: last Tuesday, oral sex both ways, Saturday sex with my wife unprotected. Two days ago, 5 second penetration unprotected and oral sex both ways with affair partner.

I mentioned I was not worried about skin stds because I can explain hsv as being transfered from my wives hsv-1 to my penis. Does hsv 1 look different than hsv 2 on penis anyway? If it's a wart then i can say it got somehow reactivated being dormant and it wouldn't necessarily reveal my infidelity which is my main worry .

My affair partner tests frequently so I'm not overtly worried about siphilis and HIV. The only conocern left would be gonorrhea and chlamydia. You mention if I had gonorrea, I would have developed symptoms for sure within 5 days.
The only worry then  is chlamydia, but It sounds like I  wouldn't get that from oral sex anyway so if I get it, it would be from penetrative sex I had. Since I didn't have sex with my wife after that, she should not be at risk I believe?

Is my summary correct? Am I missing something else? Seems like I wouldn't even need test for gonorrhea y absense of symptoms? What would you recommend in my case? I'm not planning to see my affair partner anymore. I just want to make sure I'm safe and my wife is safeAnd in case I'm positive, is there a way to hide my indiscretion from my wife to find out?