i have a pregnant wife. on March 29 I cheated on I went to massage place the lady said if I wanted to have sex, I said no. Only massage would need to be 30 minutes. if I wanted a one hour massage I needed to get something extra. she then grabbed my penis and I assuming we were talking about a handjob. I laid face down she came in and started touching my back. I asked if I can touch her and she said yes. I touched her leg and she had black leggings on. then she told me turn over for massage. then I saw her grab oil and pour it on my pelvic area and I looked up and told her just a little bit. I then ran my left hand upwards motion she was standing beside me and went under her shirt and touched her right breast then I let go. I closed my eyes assuming I was getting a handjob. I woke up to hot sensation of my penis head so I looked up and I ejaculated on her hand. she left the room, then came back with a towel and sprayed some alcohol cleaner and wiped me with the towel tested on April 8 (10 days) I took NAAT clymidia and gonnerea, hiv rna, and rpr and all negative. Late April I started to get tingly shocks in my hands and I started to worry what if she got on top of me and or gave me oral when I wasn’t looking. I saw dr hunter say any day 42 or after for hiv is conclusive so at day 43 I tested negative for RPR and 4th gen hiv test vein blood draw. I still have shocks in my hands till this day