[Question #14137] Ask for help about HIV!

 
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2 hours ago
Hello, dear doctor. I want to say that I'm really bad now. That's the way it is. I'm a gay man. I met a man on a dating app a few days ago. We met. I was a little drunk at that time, so I only remember roughly. He was naked and began to touch the other's penis. Then he touched my anus with his fingers and wanted to enter. I refused, but his fingers seemed to squeeze in a little bit. Then he hugged me from behind and rubbed his penis outside my anus for about dozens of seconds without ejaculating. That's all. Later, he saw that I was drunk and didn't cooperate with him, so he left. When I got home the next day, I didn't feel uncomfortable, but after I remembered this, my anus began to feel an indescribable discomfort. I sent him a message, hoping that he would be tested for HIV. He refused and told me that we had done nothing. His attitude worried me, so 55 hours after the incident, I couldn't stand the torment in my heart and went to the hospital for Biktarvy for PEP.
I don't know if his penis has entered my anus, but the feeling of my anus is not like the feeling after anal sex before. There is no probability, but I am still nervous because of this encounter and his attitude. If he is really a HIV carrier, will his finger infect me if there is a prehydration? And what about his penis rubbing my anus? Also, will 55 hours be too late for PEP? I'm worried that PEP will fail.
Thank u!