[Question #14142] Risk from Nude Lap Dance

12 hours ago

Hello,

I visited a strip club and received a 15 minute nude lap dance from a stripper — her vagina was completely exposed. I wore a condom on my erect penis, but my pants were unzipped with my penis poking through the hole in my boxers. So my entire penis (with condom) was visible during the lap dance but surrounded by the boxer fabric (if that makes sense). The stripper rubbed her bare vagina on my boxers and penis with condom until I ejaculated. I then removed the condom.

Am I at risk of an STI? I am nervous that fluids from the stripper’s vagina may have gotten on my boxers which then touched my bare penis after I took the condom off. This was a very stupid thing I did and I’m just trying to assess my risk. Thank you so much for reviewing my question.

Edward W. Hook M.D.

5 hours ago

Welcome back to the Forum. Thanks for your continuing confidence in our service. The activities you describe were no risk and put you at no risk for any STI. From a statisisical perspective most commercial sex workers get tested regularly and are not infected. More importantly however, your condom provided close to complete protection and STIs are not transmitted through material ( your underwear), even if the material becomes wet with genital secretions. I see no medical or scientific need for testing. Please don’t worry. EWH---